I'm honest easy going and straight up and would expect the same from you if we have a relationship.I would expect you to be caring and independent. I have never had a preconceived look or type of man that attracts me. Attraction is way beyond the visual realm. I really love a great sense of humor. Its important that we laugh. I would like someone who takes care of themselves, not just for their appearance, but to live a long and healthy life. I don't tolerate drug use, it shows me a lack of integrity. Honesty in your life, your interactions with others and most importantly, your feelings and expressions you share, create the attraction for me, just to have someone there to talk and smile each time i open my mail.
I'm seeking a multidimensional relationship with an authentic, kind-hearted soul. I'm not in a hurry to hook up with the wrong man, but rather longing for the natural progression of friends to lovers with the right man.
Hopefully you have also had the gamut of life experiences as well, and I don’t desire perfectness, just authenticity.
What is an attraction and not a distraction me is your imperfectness, funny conversation; and quirky stuff. Glad you like to laugh, and hold hands, like my heels, …… I am fun, serious and inappropriate(I’ve said that before?)However, if I’m your guy then you will get a healthy share of my life, love, attention! I believe we all grow and change and are attracted differently, and I’m not looking to change you. But will love you the way you are.