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27 year old man
Denver, Colorado, United States

Seeking:
women 21-30
Within:
15 Miles of Denver, Colorado, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'3" (190cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

One of the first questions I typically get asked: what's your job? To put it simply, I work for the government as a career facilitator with at-risk teenagers.

Please note: this is not intended to be a rant, however because there is no body language or vocal tone, this could easily sound like soap-box session. This is me just...blogging, I guess. I’ve never tried this approach before, so forgive me if it is horrible. I’ll change it in a few weeks if no one messages me or responds to messages; just need to keep trying different things until something works.

I am here for ONE reason only: to find a relationship. No, I'm not here to "hook up," or look for a princess to spoil, or be a sugar daddy, or to find my future wife. I hate guys who fall into one of the above categories, as those are the rotten eggs that spoil the dozens (e.g. the Vance's of real life from the movie "Hitch").
Since I'm a hockey fan, here's an analogy:
Goal = meeting people
Winning the game = getting into a relationship
Losing every game this season = finding a sugar baby
Winning the Stanley Cup = marriage

My intent is to win a game for now.

I want to find someone who I enjoy spending time with, who accepts me for who I am, and makes me laugh. I want to make her feel safe, comfortable, appreciated, accepted and respected. That's it. Simple, right? Not for THIS over-analyzer...(just to give you an idea, I had to type this up in MS Word beforehand, and it took up three pages, then I had to cut it down to fit into this little box)

I think there are three components to a relationship: one person (in my case, me), another person (in my case, a lady), and the interaction the two people have. Who I am as a person and who the lady is as a person are two completely different entities, but their interaction, or their "chemistry" is the X-factor that makes a relationship work or not work. You must know of a couple who totally fits the “birds of a feather flock together” adage, and others that are the epitome of “opposites attract.” I know I do. I care about three things: do I think you’re attractive, do I enjoy how we interact with one another, and do you like me? That's it.

I want a girl who allows me to be me, her to be her, and our interaction helps us both grow yet embrace who we are at our very cores. I will warn you: I do not chase girls, at all. If you need to be chased or pursued, please save me the heartache and find someone who can run for a long time.
You find confidence attractive, don’t you? I once heard this in class, which was repeated in a seminar I went to, and I kind of pushed this together to make my own phrase: everyone is confident, but not everyone is confident in the same places. I despise small talk for some reason…maybe that’s why I hate “approaching” girls at a bar. Next time you think, “Ugh, this guy has no confidence in himself,” maybe you and he were just at a place he isn’t confident. He might shine somewhere else.

I also realize that good, healthy relationships take work. You probably work on who you are as a person, I work on who I am as a person, the third leg of the stool needs work, too. I think people have gotten to this idea where chemistry means that a relationship won’t involve work. Ask anyone who has been successfully married for a long, long time. I HIGHLY doubt they will say , “oh, it was easy, all you have to do is ___,”

I can’t fit any more in this box, but I have plenty to say (OBVIOUSLY). I am able to talk about trivial things, like how a dude at the other table looks like James Franco, it isn’t all this intense all the time, but I figure this IS a dating website, why not talk about dating? If you want the full blog that I have drafted, feel free to message me, too, and I can send it to you in an email. So if you're SERIOUS about meeting a real person, and tired of superficial stuff, message me and end your hunt.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Video games, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Dancing, Soccer, Tennis / Racquet sports, Other types of exercise, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I want to get a dog, but feel too guilty because I spend up to 14 hours away from home on some days. What's the point of getting one if I'm just going to ditch her? I KNOW! I'LL GET TWO!

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
University of Florida, Gainesville, FL
For fun:

TV, movies, frisbee, hockey games, basketball games, playing the drums, video games, hanging out downtown, being around fun/funny people, being ridiculous, sports in general, "lazy days" (AKA pj days),

Favorite hot spots:

Downtown, a park, restaurants, watching movies, Comedy Works, Avs games (that's a given), at a bar watching an Avs game, at home watching an Avs game,

Favorite things:

Favorite Music: Rock, Movie Scores, Party music when I'm "in da club"

TV shows: Family Guy, Rescue Me, The League, Louie, Always Sunny In Philly, Seinfeld, Home Movies, Scrubs, stand up comedy, The Mindy Project

Movies: Anything funny or explosive.

Last read:

Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus...or whatever that book is called. Yes, I actually do read books on relationships because I think it's important that they are healthy.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'3" (190cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Black
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference

I work with at-risk teens helping them with job-searching skills and discovering career paths.

Income:
$35,001 to $50,000
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

I was adopted by a caucasian family, so biologically, I'm Asian, but culturally, I'm a middle-child who came from a Roman Catholic family (I'm didn't stick to Catholicism too well), with three non-adopted sisters (for all you Carl Jung fans).

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

I was raised Catholic, but have tried to distance myself from the Catholic church after several...occasions. I still consider myself spiritual, but don't really attend church.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have my Masters Degree, but I understand college is not for everyone.

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