Lets see... about me, i'm a laid back kinda guy that likes to have fun and enjoy the little things in life. Family oriented, ambitious, open-minded...... deceptively intelligent. Believes there is always a way to get anything done, nothing is impossible. Which would explain why i took up engineering. Blah blah blah......
-What i am looking for-
Yes, i am looking for someone special to build something with. Im no spring chicken anymore so I would like something permanent. If not, friends are always good to.
Also, Im the nicest guy you wanna meet but i must get this out in the open. I am NOT physically attracted to overweight women. I don't know if i look like the type or what, but thats not me. And yes, even if you are pretty. Not saying I like stickmen or anything, but slim/fit women are still attractive despite the southern trend. Thick, curvy women are hot to, but you know if you are thick, or if you are fat. There is a difference!!! And before u say it, i already know i dont have a body of a god either, but i can still speak on what i like. Anyway, If you guys could see my "who wants to meet you" list,...smh ....truly horrific, for the most part. Im like, daaang... is this my worth in the dating scene? Makes me wanna drop down and do some push-ups or something.
But i'm very spontaneous, and I've realized it is hard to find someone my age that has that option. Being most women my age have kid(s). Im not opposed to dating a woman with kids, I have a daughter myself, but it can be.....dry at times. Not the simple fact of them having kids but just them being accessible, or inaccessible rather. No, im not expecting someone to keep up with me, but lets face it, some of you women say your looking for a special guy but you aren't datable. Like i said, I usually do almost everything spur of the moment, so planning a week or two in advance just to go eat, is not me. I work alot myself so i can understand when the weekdays are maxed out, i know mine are.
[ Still here? Must be a reader....lol ]
Oh yea, I know you women on her get a gang of notes and it can be a task writing everyone back. But you also say don't send you short notes or, three or four words. So if I send you a note saying what's on my mind at the time, which is nowhere close to four words...... and you send me back a "what's up" or a "hello".....the new one is "How are you?"..lol. What is that about? I just stated what was up with me..smh. Its obvious u are just trying to fly through replies which tells me that ur just here to get ur ego fed. I mean, just don't write back at all if thats all you have to say. If someone approaches you in person, verbally express their interest, and you replied with a "whats up," you would instantly be deemed a ra-TARD (hangover lol).
I guess thats all for now, hopefully I didn't offend anyone, never my intent. But you know what they say, if it offends you then it must apply. Just sayin.....
Oh and another thing, i find that its an art to this online dating thing. You have to know the other persons speed to lead to anything. Some women will disappear if the email exchanges are drawn out over a long period of time (understandable). And some will get offended if they think its moving to fast. Soooo...... just to be clear, if you are the exchange emails for a few months type, then i (we) will probably lose interest after a while. I respect your privacy and i'm the last one who would push up on anyone but im not looking for pen pals, thats just boring. This is suppose to be interactive, social, FUN!!.... Its an online DATING site, not a blog......
