I would describe myself as authentic, hardworking and self-aware; a clinical psychologist and professor: I love ideas and learning, conversations that go on tangents, and need a partner who can engage me intellectually and emotionally. Physically I have been told I look like Jonathan Rhys Meyers (and, ok, Kirk Cameron when i was younger)...and have light eyes and brown hair. Also, I look a lot younger: almost boyish, I'm told…but don’t let looks deceive: I am protective and tend to be a care taker. I am looking for a woman who is mature and ambitious, yet can be vulnerable and open. I tend to go for women who express themselves with sensuality and are strong yet soft and accepting; if you fit the description I am open to starting something and seeing where we go....