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59 year old woman
San Diego, California, United States

men 56-64
30 Miles of San Diego, California, United States
Have kids:
Want kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'6" (167cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker



A little about me...
I grew up in NYC, so I learned early how to run really fast (seriously), at a very young age. I've lived throughout the Northeast, Midwest, Europe, Asia, landed in San Diego and love it here..
I've always been fairly adventurous, so after college, I had to figure a way to get to Europe - so I joined the Army to see the world - but just for the required 3 years. So, 22 years later I was looking back as a retired Army officer, moving on to her next career in San Diego still having fun, loving work, and blessed with great friends...I had enough of DC, snow storms,beltway traffic jams.. and needed a change.
I look back on experiences I will never forget - being in Berlin when the wall came down, or in China during the Tienanmen Massacre. I spent years in the DC area and enjoyed volunteer work - tough assignments like supporting the Smithsonian, visiting embassies with the DC Wine Tasting Assn..
Eventually I decided I needed a better climate, and more sunshine, so headed west...leaving the east coast behind, but understood the benefits of these experiences, and effects on character...

Through all of these experiences, and many moves, what did I learn?
I learned flexibility, and spontaneity. I learned the importance of great friends, and how to love intensely and what a great marriage was like..(the military made it challenging with two careers, and years of travel in different places, so eventually we moved in different directions).
I learned how to keep a great sense of humor and to always look on the bright side. Perhaps most importantly, I learned the value of relationships..... and what it takes to keep them -- and to love. I've planned well, own a home in a nice area, enjoy the sites and sounds around town...

What am I seeking? I'm looking for someone strong, with a big heart, who's loving, flexible, reliable, and who knows what he wants and knows balance and how to communicate..

I love my life. I am fine spending time alone (there are so many insecure people out there..who can't be alone)...but prefer spending time in a loving relationship enjoying the simple things in life, and at times, the finer things...
I knew it was about time we met. The universe had more work for me out there, more lessons to learn, more people to meet, before I met and finally settled down with my last life partner.
Everything in life is a matter of timing....

Does this sound appealing?

We are both fun loving, active, easy going, flexible, and adventurous. We both love to travel. We both realize a loving partnership is a key to a fulfilling life.
We are both grateful for everything and everyone in our lives.
We are good communicators, and don't believe in arguing - but loving each other..and making each other feel good about ourselves...Together we can let our hair down, and be ourselves...
You have planned well. You have the resources to travel in retirement and be comfortable..
I have planned well financially and look forward to more free time and ..time together...
We have just been missing each other, and had other lessons to learn, and teachers to meet along the way...
So who am I and what am I seeking...
I am loving, and strong, but sexy, and lean; a strawberry blonde, I'm out-going, light-hearted, curious, and still have that cute little girl appeal, but I can be strong when I need to be...and dependable..

You love food, fine wine, and like to cook, or you love to help pull together a marvelous meal..
You laugh a lot and you love to make me laugh.. and I love to tease you, and thrill you, and keep things exciting...It can be fun being spontaneous and unpredictable

Life is too short not to make the most of it -
Want to live your dream?
Share life's experiences? What could be more enticing?
You are already strong, active, and happy in your own skin. You want someone to share life's wonders with together...
It only takes one...
I look forward to meeting you!

Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Dancing, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Georgetown University, Washington, DC
For fun:

Hiking at Torrey Pines or Del Mar beach, attending an open air concert or picnic with someone special, spend time with friends, curling up by the fire with a good book, cooking a great meal together...

Favorite hot spots:

Balboa Park, Torrey Pines, Del Mar, Little Italy are some of my favorites...Best place to meet you for a walk is Torrey Pines

Favorite things:

I love cooking, hiking, skiing, beach walks, travel, photography, summer concerts, massage, romantic getaways.. overseas travel...Spending quiet times at home together..I like to keep up with the news, current events

Last read:

I enjoy Nicholas Sparks, Eckhart Tolle, Clancy, Cussler, Ludlum, Yoga and travel books, current affairs...lately some spiritual and personal growth...I like to stay grounded...and avoid stress...

5'6" (167cms)
5'10" (177cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type:
About average, Athletic and toned
No preference
Auburn / Red
No preference
No Way
No Way
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Executive / Management
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Architecture / Interior design

I am a project manager working in a very exciting field -- and enjoy a rewarding, interesting career - but I believe that your personal life and health should take priority over work. I try to keep both in balance. I have great people I work with!

$75,001 to $100,000
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000
Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian

I love to travel overseas and explore, enjoying new and different cultures - I lived in Europe and Asia and want to travel more often when I retire with my partner...(oh yes, and you can help me slow down - and smell the roses?)

Spiritual but not religious
Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

I am spiritual but not " religious," and believe in the power of prayer.. I believe in continuing to grow in many ways, and spiritually is just one of them....

English, German
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Academically, I have an MA and MS but i believe that learning never ends ... Learning from life's experiences and making the right course corrections .. In relationships and everything else the universe offers

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