I've been described by friends as having a beautiful mind and that my best quality is that I'm always honest, even to my own detriment. I've also been told I have a very nice smile.
I'm that guy on the train that people sit next to and just feel compelled to talk to about their day. Maybe I just look inviting...
I tend to be a very shy individual at first but once I break the ice; there’s no telling where things may lead. I’m not your typical guy. I enjoy most sports (I was a hockey player for many years, a soccer player, and even competed in mixed-martial arts. I started ice skating at age 3.).
However, I also take great pleasure in music, arts and entertainment (concerts, played, operas, performing arts and the like). I can play guitar, mandolin, bass guitar and piano. I took voice lessons for 7 years with some amazing teachers and lived the dream of being a singer in a band that actually made something of itself (Yes, I've been in quite a few different local bands). I write poetry, short stories, am finalizing a second novel (I dream of being published again), read and find many ways to enjoy the time I have.
I guess that I'm the real deal. I don't try to impress anyone but have been known to treat my dates very well. All in all, I'm genuine, just a good person who has been involved in some bad relationships. Those relationships only made me realize what I really want in a woman. My last long-term relationship (5 years) was a real eye-opener. I blame no one for its dissolve, we both a hand in it, and I'm grateful we both understood when it was time to move on – though it wasn't easy. The past is just a stepping stone to the future. I wouldn't be where I am today if not for it.
I've dated a few different girls from this site and in general. I’ve been here with match on and off for a little bit of time. The women I dated just weren't for me I suppose. I think we all search for that special someone who’s right for us and I just haven't found that person yet.
My ideal date????? Everyone has one right, lol. This is actually a tough question... I guess she would have to be smart, witty, fun to be around, and attractive. Gee, I don't have any expectations...lol. I think that she should be easy to-talk-to – able to tell me anything and vice versa. Communication is key. I've been with too many women who just don't want to talk. I traded in my mind reading capabilities for fiery brown eyes instead and although I’m deeply intuitive I still hold true that talking is essential to growth.
My match should be intelligent and confident because both are equally sexy and add to the allure. I'm looking for someone different and refreshing. We don't have to share all the same interests. I like to do my own thing at times.
Seriously, there is nothing worse than having nothing interesting to say and if I had to be a more typical guy I would say she definitely has to have a nice butt. That would be a welcomed requirement. (Hey, I like what I like) I'd also hope she has a great smile and beautiful eyes to get lost in.
I am willing to give people a chance because there is something worth finding in everyone. She, whoever she is, should feel the same way.
I don't like inane games and if you insist on playing them then dust off your Nintendo and go a few rounds of Super Mario because you won't find me so accommodating. Drama is for people who live a lackluster life so if you're looking at my profile then understand I'm looking for honesty, trust, and a person who is up for a little whimsicality and fun.
If you made it this far I'm impressed. Drop an email or wink and we'll see where it goes. I will also give out my chat if asked.
I believe beauty is everywhere; you just have to look for it...
Thank you and good luck.
“And moreover, to succeed, the artist must possess the courageous soul . . . the brave soul. The soul that dares and defies.” a quote taken from Kate Chopin.