I am a friendly, outgoing, fun loving person who likes to try new things. I love to laugh and enjoy great company and conversation. I am family oriented and a mother of three, 1 in college, 1 headed to college and a 6 year old, yes a 6 year old :) I have been single by choice and am now at the point in my life where I am settled, comfortable and stable and ready to open the doors to my heart and let my soul mate in. I have a big heart with a lot of love to give only to the right person, not just temporarily but for a lifetime.
I am by know means perfect and am not looking for the perfect man, I am just looking for the perfect man for me. I wants him to complete & compliment me. Complete me; where I am weak he is strong, Compliment me; not just 'eye candy' on my arm but boost and build me up when I feel like I have reached my peak. I believe in supporting, complimenting and encouraging to build my partner up. Yes I am an optimist :) Its not the situation your faced with its the way you handle the situation that counts.
Communication, respect, trust and loyalty are huge for me in any relationship or friendship. Communication is key. If respect is a priority then the trust and loyalty will fall into place.
I am most attracted to a man that is confident, not cocky, can be versatile in situations, is a bit old fashioned and is definitely a gentleman that is not afraid to show affection and be honest. A man that can speak his mind, respectfully, can be about business and yet laugh and be playful at times as well. I am looking for a man that will take the time to get to know me and I will do the same for him, not behind a computer or cell phone, but the old fashioned way, courting...
I am a woman that appreciates the small things. I would prefer a card on a random day just saying "I love you" verses a dozen roses on Valentine's Day, just because it is what is expected. I believe it is good to always do the small things because it will always show how much you appreciate your mate. Appreciating and respecting your mate is very important in a successful relationship I believe.
