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39 year old woman
San Diego, California, United States

Seeking:
men 32-47
Within:
70 Miles of San Diego, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Atheist
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I am very much an open book. Although I can be very sarcastic, there is an underlying optimism in how I see the world. I am liberal and am looking for like minded fellows or at least guys who lean liberal. I am one who is passionate about helping others. My legal practice has primarily been as a Public Defender, giving a voice to the poor and disenfranchised. But don't worry, I am not your typical hot-headed attorney. I promise. I am also not a competitive chick. In my relationships and when making personal decisions, I tend to come from a rational standpoint. But I am also a compassionate person full of affection.

I have been very lucky to have traveled extensively. I have hiked in the Alps, into (and out of) the Grand Canyon, and all over Death Valley. I adore learning about new cultures and I have visited Italy, England, Paris, Germany, Austria, the Czech Republic, Slovakia, Croatia, Greece, Ghana, and Maui.

I like staying healthy and active. I have enjoyed yoga, running, pilates, and tennis, among many other activities that would take way too long to list! I even did competitive gymnastics as a little kid. Needless to say I am a bit rusty in the handspring department...

I looooove trying out new foods and places to eat! Whether this is cheap burritos, sloppy burgers, or a nicer restaurant that celebrates local ingredients, I enjoy it all.

I am blissful having long intellectual conversations (over drinks or food or coffee) about politics, philosophy, or life in general. Or analyzing the movie we just saw. I also get really excited learning new words, it is kind of weird. I just adore the English language. I also swear like a sailor (not in front of my daughter), so you have been forewarned.

I am very into movies and live theater. I tend to like documentaries and independent films, but I love a wide range (The Hangover was awesome, too). I also have a passion for plays and musicals. I enjoy modern art and spending time at museums, as well. I am for sure not someone you will find clubbing...

I am also of course a mom! I have an incredible four-year-old daughter who means the world to me. I have her half of the time. My ex and I get along great- we know how important that is for our daughter. She and I spend time visiting playgrounds, playing, reading, and laughing. I love making an utter fool of myself with her and have no qualms about it. Spending time with my friends and all of my family is extremely important to me. Having drinks to catch up with them is always fun.

I am looking for a long term relationship. Honesty is very important to me. I also find rational and intelligent men to be super hot! Making me laugh is another requirement. I also value a man who is open to constructive criticism and improvement within the relationship (as I am). Someone who lives a balanced life in all areas- one who is not a workaholic. I also don't think I would be able to do well with a man who travels a lot for work. Men who value giving back to others in some way are very sexy. I love being playful and flirtatious with my significant other, so I am hoping to find this in you, too. That is one of life's greatest joys ;) Finally, I would like to find a man who takes care of himself. Oh, and please be ready emotionally and mentally for a relationship. I'm having a tough time with this one.

Please send me an email if you are at all interested in this profile! I am ready to have some fun :)

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Billiards / Pool, Running, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I have one cute little cat named Maggie.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
University of California, San Diego, La Jolla, CA
For fun:

Movies, live theater, hiking, museums, walks and dance parties with my daughter, listening to music, reading, and hanging out with friends and family. Cuddling on the couch with someone special. Coffee shops. Exploring new areas of SoCal.

Favorite hot spots:

I don't know if I ever am in a "hot spot". I love England, Paris, Maui, SF, Napa, new restaurants and places for drinks, and Balboa Park. I haven't lived here in a long time, so I would love to be introduced to new places!

Favorite things:

I seriously live for music, from Beatles to Simon & Garfunkel to Cat Stevens. I also adore Coldplay, DMB, Green Day, Muse, and Paramore. My television favorites are The Office and The Daily Show. I also tend to like shows on HBO or Showtime.

Last read:

I finally read my first Vonnegut book. My favorite authors or playwrights are - Shakespeare, Austen, Charlotte Bronte, Arthur Miller, and Samuel Beckett. Pretty much all the classic literature we had to read for school!

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Legal
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Scottish, Irish, British, and some Italian I think.

Faith:
Atheist
No preference

Although I am an Atheist, I make no judgements about other people's beliefs and am open minded. Each person should be free to pursue their own path.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I got my JD from UCLA. I majored in World Literature at UCSD.

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