I've been with more married women than I would like to admit to. With that said. I don't think its fair that men are the only ones labled as cheaters. I've never cheated on my woman. I've had chances too. But that is the time when you decline their offer. Its psychological! You don't let another person steal your partner's MoJo. I know its hard to try to be a certain way when you reall aren't. I want someone I can keep it real with. And I need her to do the same. I've been single for 4 yrs. The first 2 yrs, I started swinging. Now, keep in mind, I'm not looking for a swinging relationship. I only bring it up because it opened my eyes to new thoughts, Ideas and an understanding that I never understood before. Basically, I'm trying to say. If you have a history of cheating...don't try to change! You'll be waisting both our time. Instead, be honest with it...embrace it, fine tune it. You cant and shouldn't fool someone into loving you for that image you're trying to portray because you're ashamed of your desires. We might like the same things! I hope to find someone that isn't quick to judge. Doesn't bully their moral values on others. Someone that isn't emotionally strained or skeptical about love, loyalty, and trust. Someone that is capable of listing with their heart and able to put themselves in that situation to understand. On the other hand. I need a woman that is