Okay so everyone does the disclaimer thing, which up to this point I didn't understand why...but there's an abundance of emails I've received lately that have perplexed me and have led me to state the following: I'm a smoker and I'm not trying to or planning on quitting anytime in the near future. It's fine if you're not a smoker...I couldn't care less what you do. However....if you state in your profile that you don't want someone that is a smoker, an occasional smoker or is a smoker but is trying to quit....then why are you interested in getting to know me? Just sayin...
People can tell, right off the bat, that I am very good-hearted and extremely honest. I'm very down-to-earth and real.I am confident without being vain. Very honest and caring, will be there for my friends and family for anything. Family is truly the most important thing in life. A dramatic sense of honor about me adds mystery to my personality. I am always the best dressed girl in the room. Cosmopolitan and sophisticated, I enjoy the best in food, art, and culture. I also appreciate a good amount of grit - and very little shocks me. I am competitive, driven, and ambitious. When I work I'm always looking forward to a positive challenge.
I love baseball, playing and watching-yes I am from NY, yes I am a die-hard Yankees fan. I'm surprisingly handy and can always put together furniture and probably refinish a hardwood floor....probably comes from my Uncle/Godfather being in carpentry/construction and my Dad owning a hardwood flooring company, which i run for him in my free time. I also know a tad about cars, more than your average girl who doesn't even know how to jump a battery, which definitely is a skill I think everyone should know. Although I might sound like a bit of a tomboy at the moment, I LOVE fashion and more importantly shoes, as to which I have literally hundreds. You can probably see this in my pics ;) I love dancing, from reggae to ballroom. I like experiencing different things, from going to the aquarium, to a museum, to a carnival, to the new restaurant in the neighborhood.
I'm very kind loyal to my friends and family...I love tradition holiday festivities. You may say I'm your typical Italian girl. I never asked to be born Italian, I was just blessed by it. "Being Italian, is not just your heritage. It's your way of being, your attitude, it's what makes you proud." I love making a sauce with meatballs and braciole on Sundays while listening to Frank Sinatra. Cooking is a very big part of my culture and I really do enjoy perpetuating all the traditions.
I'm looking for the real deal....someone who is not afraid to feel, who wants that forever kind of love and will express it everyday and appreciate when I express it to him every day. I need someone who wants the relationship to go somewhere...naturally...but still wants to find the girl that he wants to spend the rest of his life with. Someone that is family-oriented. Someone who is dependable and responsible yet fun and spontaneous.
In love, I feel the most alive when my lover is creative, spontaneous and never lets me feel bored. I want a relationship that looks to the future... one I can grow with.
To sum it up in the words of one of the greats this is me... (she enters a room commanding attention, the best-dressed no doubt, with an old New York kinda swag): "A lady never leaves her escort...It isn't fair...it isn't nice...A lady never wanders all over the room...And blows on some other guys dice" ;)
You are amazing in more ways that I can count, but why would I even bother trying because I know you're the best guy for me at my core. You're confident and have some serious swagger, but because we complete each other so perfectly, when we see one another shine alone so brightly, we can only seem to love one another that much more. You treat me like your queen and I treat you like my king.
I'm not asking for that much am I? lol