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38 year old woman
Vienna, Virginia, United States

Seeking:
men 40-45
Within:
20 Miles of Vienna, Virginia, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Does the soulmate part scare you? It's just my way of saying that I am dating in hopes of finding a significant other and when in a serious relationship I love honestly and passionately. If that still scares you then bye and good luck :-)


Still reading? Then you probably want to know some more. Lot's of friends, both women and men, say I'm a very caring person. When I ask my kids if they know how much I love them, my 12 and 9-year-old roll their eyes and reply "Yes mom. You tell us all the time!" I'm a firm believer in showing affection to both my kids and my significant other.


One of the most important things that I learned from my divorce was that I need a relationship based on honest and frequent communication - both verbal and non-verbal. I don't play games. I can't hide my feelings even if I wanted to. I say what I mean and I want to know that my partner will as well. And lying by omission is still lying.


I love to take care of those I love and sometimes neglect myself. I consciously take time for myself during the week my kids are with their father. I read tons of trashy romance novels, make jewelry, sing, crochet... And before you think anything about it, let me say I firmly believe in women's liberation. Women should not be expected to assume certain roles in a relationship, but that doesn't mean that women cannot CHOOSE to take more traditional roles. And I'm not all traditional - I have picked up a hatchet and helped dig a ditch, laid 400 sq feet Saltillo tile, changed my power steering belt, and just recently replaced my headliner by myself. I also love college football.


I am generally outgoing. When walking into a place where I don't know anyone, I never have trouble striking up friendly conversations on my own... so if you find you are interested, let me know and we will take it from there and see what happens.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Shopping/Antiques
Sports & exercise:
Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
I'll tell you later
College:
The University of Texas at Austin, Austin, TX
For fun:

with adults - see interests and add playing board games, dancing, and karoke
with kids - playing board games and cards, putting together puzzles, arts and crafts, seeing museums, Six Flags, playing outside, movie night...

Favorite things:

Besides my kids?
Dr. Pepper,steak, brussel sprouts, asparagus, avocado, cucumber,
U2, Carrie Underwood, Led Zepplin,Beattles,Mozart,Adele,
Law and Order, Criminal Minds, Bones
romance novels and movies
sweats, corsets, and ball gowns
snuggling

Last read:

I'm in the middle of a seven book series about Highlanders. I'm also reading about databases...

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 6'9" (205cms)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Architecture / Interior design

I used to teach high school physics, chemistry, and later math. Now I work with teachers and their use of technology.

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
$75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian

One set of grandparents are Mexican and the other are German. It makes an interesting mix!

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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