Rev Up Your love Life With These Tips!

BGruhn

Country song in my head today: "Hold me in your arms...and let me fall." --Brad Paisley

Close Window

BGruhn has been notified that you want to learn about him.

Check back after a few days & see if he has added more details to his profile.

CLOSE

Like
Tell him why you like this photo. close

SUBSCRIBE AND SEND loading

« »


Active within 3 days

31 year old man
Brighton, Massachusetts, United States

Seeking:
women 27-37
Within:
50 Miles of Chestnut Hill, Massachusetts, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Life is too short to waste it being bored, lonely, sad, or mean. So I'm looking for matching hearts and kindred spirits to get to know and spend time with.

A few things about me: I'm funny. I know people say that about themselves, but...whatever, I'm good for quality laughs. I'm a big believer in "an unexamined life is not a life worth living." So I enjoy going deep and wrestling with life's complexities...without trying to simplify them. Humor helps with that...as does wine...which I also enjoy. I'm a musical person...by that I mean I enjoy breaking into song randomly. Sometimes there is choreography. On really good days there's a full chorus. I'm trying to cook more at home, find more enjoyable physically exhausting activities, and give more hugs and foot rubs. I'm very considerate, giving, kind; and I don't like wasting my time with dishonest or self-centered people. If you're looking for a "guy's guy" kinda person...I'm probably not what you want. I can go a long time without watching sports, but I like talking about my feelings and RomComs. I know...weird. But I don't believe in gender binaries, or stereotypes. I like having the freedom to explore the full range of what it means to be human, and I love spending time with others who enjoy that same freedom. I have a big family I love and a community I'm very dedicated to, and I'm always looking to add to it.

Ich kann ein bisschen Deutsch zu sprechen. Mein Deutsch ist nicht so gut, aber Ich mag üben. Vielleicht können wir gemeinsam lernen können?

A few things about who I'm looking to meet and spend time with: Kindness, compassion, and generosity go a long way. If you're mean or if you like using people for your own purposes, please just pass on by. No one on the earth is perfect, and I'm looking for someone who doesn't need to spend time trying to pretend that she is. Nothing is hotter than someone who is confident, passionate, and in love with life. Do you like to dance, sing, play, laugh, have big deep conversations? All pluses. You probably have a full life, and we both have a past full of baggage...but if you are able to make room for the possibility of something/someone genuinely new, then I think we're in for a good time.
Also...I think I'm way better in person than I am online. Take that as you will.
So I think this whole thing goes best when you are just you and I am just me. It saves time and energy. So if any of this sounds interesting/fun to you, drop me a line and let me know, and we'll see if any of this fits together. :)

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Dancing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I don't have pets...but I've always liked the idea of having a dog. Just haven't had a living situation that has made it possible yet. But almost everyone in my family has dogs, so I live vicariously through them.

Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Cancer
College:
Beloit College, Beloit, WI
For fun:

I am a big Ultimate Frisbee fan and have a great time having game nights with friends, laughing, walking, hiking (not so much with the running) and camping. I really like staying in to watch a good movie or try out a new pub.

Favorite hot spots:

The Top of the Hub, on top of the Prudential Tower in Boston, is one of my favorite views of all time. Never get tired of going there. Any place with a waterfall. Southeast Arizona has the greatest star-gazing skies. Just sayin'.

Favorite things:

Laughing, sharing stories with friends, STORIES in general, I'm a fan. Movies: Serenity, Shaun of the Dead; TV: Justified, Parks and Rec; Books: American Gods by Neil Gaiman; Music: Avett Brothers, Rufus Wainwright, Mindy Smith. Sunrises & Sunsets

Last read:

"Sabbath: Finding Rest, Renewal and Delight in Our Busy Lives" by Wayne Muller. Currently working on "The Dinner" by Herman Koch

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
4'0" (121cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, Big and beautiful, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, Full-figured, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist
No preference

I'm an ordained minister in the United Church of Christ, currently serving as an Associate Pastor at a congregation in the Boston area.

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English, German, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Close Window

Your message has been sent to BGruhn

CLOSE

Close Window

We encountered a problem sending your message to BGruhn. Please try again later.

CLOSE

Finish by entering your Match.com sign in details.

This lets you sign in faster next time.

Continue
Already a member? Sign in here »

Close Window

Your message has been sent to BGruhn.

See More Like him:


view more »

CLOSE WINDOW