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39 year old man
Chicago, Illinois, United States

women 29-49
15 Miles of Chicago, Illinois, United States
Never Married
Have kids:
Want kids:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
5'11" (180cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker



Chris Rock once joked, "You're never gonna find somebody that likes both 'Seinfeld' AND 'Wu-Tang Clan'!" Believe it or not, I'm that person! I love doing creative things, am easy to get along with and allergic to drama. I don't have kids, but love them (I'm an uncle many times over.)

I'm a music junkie. My life soundtrack would have everything from Led Zeppelin to The Jackson 5 and a hodgepodge in between. My iPod is confused and I like it that way. When I draw and paint, I find my place and piece in the world. I dabble in writing and very interested in photography. So, I guess you could say I'm an artist looking for my muse.

Understand...I'M NOT A MOTOR-MOUTH. My personality is of a quiet nature. There's no need for you to take it personally. I won't talk your ear off about "nothing". That doesn't mean I can't hold a conversation. As Mia Wallace in "Pulp Fiction" asks: "Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about B.S. in order to be comfortable? That's when you know you've found somebody special. When you can just shut the ---- up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence." :oD

I will say, I do tend open up to and feed off someone who has a smarta-- sense of humor and not always ultra-sensitive/serious. I enjoy playful banter. I realize this is Fast-Food-DateMart and you have to know my entire life backwards and forwards within the first 2 minutes, but, if you're willing to invest a little more time than that, you'll find I'm fun to be around and you will know me very well. I promise, okay?

I enjoy all my Chicago teams; both the Cubs AND White Sox (It's possible to like both), Bears, Bulls. However, with football, be careful. I might get carried away and think I'm a real quarterback. Then we'll be reenacting an episode of "The Brady Bunch" when Marcia got her nose busted. :o[

I don't smother, but I know how to give proper attention. You'll have some time for me. You're not "on the rebound". There's no loose ends. You're truly ready for new possibilities.

I keep getting disappointed. It's not fun to remove an ice pick from your heart. But, I'm still trying to find my last relationship. I'm clear on this. Not married tomorrow, just involved with a person who can focus.

I'll pamper and spoil you. Not necessarily in the material sense. You'll get long foot massages when you've had a rough day. In fact, I even love to give pedicures. Yep, you read that right. If you're the woman who bets on me, then you could be getting spoiled rotten with your own daily personal spa service and I would absolutely indulge you.

I'm not perfect. Sorry. But, if someone can see past my perceived flaws, I know how to treat someone who cares about me. I know this is running long and It might be sappy, but here's one way I tend to express myself. ~

I heard the music
The first time you sang your song to me
Your first letter, the first look at your face
Any other woman ceased to be

When I know it's you
The rhythm of my heart goes staccato
Like a riff from Hendrix's guitar
My world shakes from the vibrato

Hearing you speak
Is like listening to Ella scatting Jazz
I want to catch every word, to know what's in your heart
Beautiful and rich tones, plenty of pizzazz

As would Stevie
I sit here at the keys
Needing to tell you how I feel
How much my being needs to please

I believe Prince sang of you
When he wrote 'Adore'
Your beauty I will always see
There's a chorus of love for you to explore

I can be your virtuoso
Expressing myself physically
Fill all your needs specifically
Minds, bodies and souls in synchronicity

You're the beat
The lyric
The verse
Making my life's composition lush and atmospheric

This is no happenstance
Harmonious are we
I was supposed to love you
To unlock the muted heart and set your song free~

*No pictures = no response. You see me, I'd like to see you. Emails are better than winks. Just saying. :o)

Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pet Essay:

I get along with dogs and cats quite well. No allergies, no qualms. Most of the time.

Political views:
Very Liberal
Robert Morris College, Chicago, IL
For fun:

I like a calm dinner/movie nights, go for a drink, walk in the park, cafe, bookstore, gallery, museum, zoo, ballgame, park or stay home with some TV. The moral of the story: I'm flexible. I just want to have fun with whomever I'm with, period.

Favorite hot spots:

Here in Chicago, it can be anywhere. I don't mind acting like a tourist in my hometown. I love Las Vegas and SoCal, especially San Diego. I would love to travel more. Internationally in particular.

Favorite things:

Creativity. Technology. Comics, Sci-Fi. Mom's cooking. Italian, Mexican and Soul food. Art. Movies. Sports. Prince, Stevie Wonder, Hendrix, Kanye, Dr.Dre. "Everybody Hates Chris", "How It's Made", "Unsung", and...Giving massages and pedicures. ;o))

Last read:

I read the news almost daily, paper or online. Big Prince fan here, so an unauthorized biography of his life titled "Possessed" and "The Color of Water" by James McBride.

5'11" (180cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Administrative / Secretarial
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

In my recent past work life, I was a graphic artist. Then, life (and the economy) happened. I had to change carrers. At the core, I'm an artist. Hoping I can be that again at some point soon.

I'll tell you later
No preference
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Black / African descent
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

See above.

Spiritual but not religious
Spiritual but not religious, Other

I believe in a higher power, but I don't belong to a religion.

English, Other
Associates degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I graduated from Robert Morris College with an Associates Degree in graphic arts.

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