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41 year old man
Tempe, Arizona, United States

Seeking:
women 30-40
Within:
50 Miles of Tempe, Arizona, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Hi. Let's not state the obvious. So, I'm skipping all the formal small talk which is more telling about my personality than telling you that I like what every other sane person likes (laughing, having fun, eating, freedom, spending time with people I like, etc...) I like using lists because they make things look clear and easy to read, which is also like me! Here are some good lists that not only tell you what I am looking for, but also tell you about who I am. I am looking for an equal, so everything I want from my partner is something I bring to the equation. Here are my lists:

Characteristics that I am looking for in a woman. She:
can hold her own without being domineering. (Assertive but not aggressive)
knows what she likes and doesn't have to make that into what I like. (Interdependent, not codependent)
has her career and earned it on her own. (Self-reliant)
should also take care of herself. (No smoking, illegal drugs, or obesity issues.)
has her own car, place, money, job, and life. (Independent)
doesn't need a partner, but wants one. (Appreciative and possibly self-actualized)
is authentic, but also hast tact on when it's fun to be crass. (Adaptively multifaceted)
loves dogs and is a responsible owner who provides consistency. (Committed)
practices what she preaches, especially when it's not easy. (Has integrity)
helps others by teaching them to fish, rather than giving fish away. (Carefully caring)

These are my quirks that I'd love if you also shared:
Dislikes large crowds of drunk people, but still drinks socially.
Dislikes driving in rush hour traffic, but loves to drive on day trips.
Not a sports fanatic, but can enjoy watching a game just hanging out with friends.
Is literate, but also loves to see movies and TV shows based on books without bitching about how much better the book was.
Won't shy away from an argument, but also knows how to argue effectively to resolve things.
Is health conscious but also indulges in guilty pleasures occasionally. (Desserts, mixed drinks, junk food at the movies, deep fried fair food, etc..)

Bonus points for the following interests:
Sic-fi
Trivia
Music
Gadgets and technology
How things work

Here are my deal breakers:
Obesity: It's a symptom of deeper issues.
Drug abuse: Never have been into it, and not curious about trying anything. Plus, I can't discourage it with my clients but then do it myself! Hypocrisy is not what I aspire to. I practice what I preach.
If you run from your issues or are not open to learning if you have any issues, then we will not get along because I will outgrow you.
If you don't like conflict and try to please people just because it's easier, then I would run you over and lose respect for you.
Cats: I'm a dog owner and appreciate the discipline it takes to have a good relationship with a dog,
If you are an extremist of any sort and can't see how another perspective may also be valid, then we will frustrate each other. I like balanced perspectives.
Cultural blindness: if you think we are all the same then you will invalidate my views.

I would like a woman who has had her metal tested through the challenges of life, but is not cynical or jaded; someone who can still hope for the best but knows how to deal with the worst. I want a woman who has stared down her own demons and is at peace with the imperfections and scars that make her unique, resilient, and stronger for having made it through her darkest hour. I need someone who has struggled and overcome more than 1st world problems because I help people with REAL problems all day (being abused, losing their kids, and addictions), so I'd probably smirk at 1st world problems. My perspective is a bit more grounded and it enables me to appreciate life's basics more than most.

I was born in the Philippines but have lived all but 14 months of my life in the US. 23 years in MD & 18 in AZ. Yes, English is my first language.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I'm allergic to cats and don't care for them.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Movies, happy hour with friends, spending time with my dog, learning new things.

Favorite hot spots:

Any vantage point with a view of a sunset, Dog Beach in San Diego, any movie theater, any sushi restaurant, MD or NY to visit family.

Favorite things:

I love watching cooking competitions, science fiction, psychological thrillers, and all kinds of music, except country.

Last read:

An article on how GMO foods are killing people slowly over time.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 5'7" (170cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Black
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Other profession
Administrative / Secretarial, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

Counselor or Therapist

Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

Filipino, raised in the US.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Golden Rule practitioner, raised Catholic, Buddhist tendencies.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Master of Counseling degree from ASU

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