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Simply a very social nerd ... someone say sophistaratchet? lol

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29 year old man
Wheat Ridge, Colorado, United States

Seeking:
women 22-35
Within:
50 Miles of Wheat Ridge, Colorado, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I love music, like to enjoy some drinks out, can adjust to various social settings... not too lost in a kitchen lol, love to chat, independent, educated... frankly a social buff but a nerd as well ... lol

I've intentionally stayed away from relationships for a little while but as I get into a new phase of my life, it'll be nice to meet the kind of girl I'm look to live life with. I'd like to know someone for a little while before I jump into a marriage, as I plan to do it once and for all. I believe in effort and communication and I'm willing and quite frankly prepared to put in that work. Makes it so much better.

I am attractive and to be honest, I won't lie or downplay it - attraction is important - but appealing to my other five senses is paramount. I'm fairly easy going and pretty straight forward - a blessing and a curse all wrapped up in one.

I'm looking for an easy going, attractive girl who is caring, funny and witty. I love someone who'd make me laugh, and I can return the favor 100 fold. I am looking for my best friend, advisor, lover, travel partner, and someone who is not afraid of my critical thinking. There has to be a connection of some sort, beyond the physical, though physical attraction goes a long way. Appreciation for the arts is wonderful. Musically inclined would be awesome! Sing me a song, fall into the music with me and let our soul's dance to each beat. Let's go for an impromptu road trip, eat dinner picnic style on my balcony, ...let's, let's...

Let's discover each other.

- I'm not looking for a FWB situation
- Race isn't an issue (it's not the color of your skin that matters but how you treat yourself & others!)
- Not looking for drama either. I know everyone has some sort of baggage - just hoping it's a purse or a carry on, not large suitcases.
- One conversation/email/text message does not make a relationship. Check all jealousy issues at the door.
- Be SINGLE! Not attached, not married, not in a relationship, SINGLE! As in, well, SINGLE.
- Be employed and driven. If not employed, have a good reason... e.g. schooling (great! all for that!), or proper transition between work or actively searching with reasonable qualifications. Nothing says responsible and ready for future like someone who can take care of herself financially - I do.
- Have a personality! Laughing is a must; connecting on some level goes without saying.
- Be flexible and free spirited
- Be emotionally available. If you have ex bf drama, daddy blues, or simply still hung up on something/someone that was, you're not available for what is. Be in this moment! If you're stuck on yesterday, today is not an option for you
- Educated would be great, but you don't need a PhD to contact me (all of this said with the understanding that the piece of paper on the wall doesn't necessarily mean you're smart, just means you can complete something you've started)
- Respect goes a LONG way and if you give me due portions of it, trust me, I will shower you with tons of it. Long gone are the days of being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, every guy knows that, but I still want a girl who knows how to let a man be a man.
- One last thing, please be neat. I've noticed in big on hygiene and simple house keeping, being tidy, etc... and have been finding out the hard way that meeting girls these days with that take us not so given lol

Honestly, I am not looking for you to change your last name or your address any time soon. Truth is, companionship and something long term is preferred, but I won't turn down an opportunity to enjoy a moment either.

So send me an email. The worst that can happen is we decide we're not a good fit. We're all perfect; some of us are just not perfect together, and that's ... ok.

You may make a really great friend, or at best, you'll realize, in hindsight, that you've had your VERY LAST first date.

Go ahead. Send an email.

I'll wait.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Martial arts, Soccer, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
Colorado School of Mines, Golden, CO
For fun:

Was in DC for business a little pleasure; I had a great time hanging with a few friends. Saw a few landmarks. Abraham Lincoln Memorial was very nice to see in person - touched me a bit lol, but for right reasons. Anyhow, nightlife was also nice :)

Favorite hot spots:

London, Middle East, New York, would like to visit asia :)

Favorite things:

Breaking bad (for now), technology in general (lol), music (production and listening - not so much country), a movie called "3 idiots" (has EVERY emotion in there - beautiful), singing and performing (will do for the right person), food - oh yeah :)

Last read:

I'm disappointed in myself because I haven't read any "books" lately. I've read A LOT of technical material and being so busy, haven't gotten a chance to catch a pleasure (or self-improvement) read. Will fix that ASAP.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Moderately
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Student
No preference
Income:
$35,001 to $50,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Someday
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference

Born in Nigeria, moved to London, then moved to the US.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Agnostic, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

"Protestant" was the closest to fit my beliefs, as much as I do have a lot of arguments for / against Christianity. I don't like labels because even within Christianity, it's all about my personal relationship with God. We can chat more on this :)

Languages:
English, Other
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

Working on my PhD at the moment.

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