Sometimes I'm just being immature. I don't do it to hurt anyone's feelings tho. When I purposefully do something that I know is wrong, I look to make amends for it: like giving back money if I stole it from someones bank account.
Look, I'm just a guy going thru my own difficult times too. We shared an experience: My perspective on it might be completely different than yours. Neither one is wrong. People are different, that's what makes us unique. You tell me what I could do that would be an amends, like make a deposit or send a gift. I would fly south one day to make up for things if I thought it would please her.