If I could describe myself in one word I would say unique, although wouldn't we all. My narcissism will not let me be taken advantage of, while my compassion will not let me prey on your insecurities. I love to keep the mood light, laugh and just enjoy the company of others. I like people that can explain their point of views and defend their positions with out inciting a riot. I have been accused of having a serious demeanor that intimidates people at first. Then they get to know me, and call me a softy! I believe one of the biggest keys to a success full friendship is loyalty. Bottom line: I would like to meet those that have goals, a plan to meet those goals, and the ability to to sprinkle in some fun and spontaneity on their way to achievement!