I am going to keep it short and sweet. Physical attraction is very important (who are we kidding...let's be real) but I can't go with a female who is all looks and no brains because an obvious lack of intelligence negates the positive physical attributes.(that's just me though) Physical attributes may draw my eye but if you want my heart and my mind (in a HEALTHY relationship..all 3 are an absolute must) then I HAVE to be able to hold a conversation with you. Based on my personal experience, no matter how amazing someone is...I believe there is either a serious connection from the start or it isn't meant for the long haul (again...that is just me). For me, that was pretty short lol.