Honestly the best match for me would be someone who isn't afraid to try something new. We have all been through good and bad relationships. We have to leave them behind if we are going to be something for someone else. Keep your eyes and your heart open but always look out for number one. Nobody wants to be walked on.
I want someone that wants the same things I want, and I want to know it up front. I'm on this website because I don't want to meet someone at a bar, awkwardly try to figure out what they want for 6 months, only to figure out that they are the opposite of what either one of us is looking for. It's a frustrating process I know.
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. Talk about what you want, communication is key. People want to be understood, not figured out. I speak my mind, maybe its actually just a problem with blurting, anyhow it works for me.
I need to be able to talk to you, talk back. Its like a friendship, but much better. Always be ready to laugh, this is a must. I do a lot of stupid things, you may not have too many breaks in between hysterical laughing outbreaks :-)
I'm also looking for someone who knows what they want. I understand figuring yourself out, believe me I do. But I can't be a rebound or a replacement for someone that didn't work out the way you wanted it to.
I want someone to spend time with, someone who I can depend on, someone I know is going to be there when it counts. I will always give that back. Its a slow process learning to trust someone, get to know them. But in the end its worth it. The only battle we fight each day is not with others but with ourselves. We can figure it out together.
Last and most importantly, lets have fun, lets do new things that we have not done before, travel places we haven't been. Learn new things, meet people, new friends that we can hang out with.
I want to share this life with a partner, someone who understands the value in being a caring, loving, and open person.
I'm closing with my favorite quote
"Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence."