Warning, I am not your typical woman :-) I’m sure you’ve heard that before, but let me explain: I care about the way I look and how I dress, but I’m not a shopper. I would rather go and do than “buy”. I am a planner, but pride myself on being flexible. I feel very comfortable going with the flow because control is an illusion. I am disciplined in my personal habits, but I am tolerant of all lifestyles (as a hobby, I am a certified life/wellness coach). I say what I mean and mean what I say (no game playing), I pride myself on being honest. I fit easily into all social situations. I am smart and love to have deep conversation, but I also have a great sense of humor and love to have fun. I am grounded, down to earth, real, genuine and very easy to get along with. I am sexy and flirtatious and affectionate, but only with my significant other. I am young for my age and very energetic. I was born and raised in San Diego and have lived the last 28 years in St. Augustine. The beach/water is a major part of my life! To know me is to love me and have respect for what I have overcome that has given me much wisdom and strength and that my experiences have made me who I am today :-)
I have 2 children and my 1st priority in life is to raise them in a conscious way. My oldest is 22 and is a graduate of UF (go Gators!) and my youngest is 16. Although, I do have plenty of free time to have a life of my own, the right guy for me will understand my commitment to my kids.
I realize that although I like myself and enjoy my own company and the company of my dear friends, life is more fulfilling with the right intimate partner to share it with. So, I am looking to find someone that enhances my world and I theirs, because it is all about adding to each others lives and fitting comfortably together. It is about a healthy balance.
This is the important part: :-)
I am looking for that guy that I am physically, mentally and spiritually attracted to, a "best friend with fire". So, the right fit for me is someone who is in shape (FYI, "athletic and toned" means you don't have a beer belly :-), who knows that living a healthy lifestyle helps you get more out of life, who knows who he is and what he wants, and who is a straight forward communicator. A guy who is EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE that isn't afraid of true intimacy. I find funny, smart, open minded, kind, HONEST, thoughtful, considerate, energetic, affectionate and stable guys the most attractive. My partner in crime will hopefully be a morning person, want to travel, play at the beach, be active and live life to the fullest (and live within an hours drive of St. Augustine) . The purpose of our lives is to be happy, so I am allergic to drama (and cats)! I feel our intimate relationship should be our oasis. (I get that many of us are here for different reasons, so to be clear, I'm not into one night stands or casual sex, I am looking for a committed relationship). So, if you are someone with integrity who walks his talk, and is ready for the possibility of a real connection, feel free to contact me.
