My idea of my perfect man: Kind, sincere, attractive, great sense of humor, trusting, trustworthy, a great communicator who has learned from life's experiences and has grown mentally and emotionally. Someone honest, generous with love and affection, and capable of showing appreciation for all that I do for him. He enjoys his work and takes pride in what he does. (I don't care if he owns 5 companies or sells pencils as long as he's good at it/enjoys it.) Someone who can just simply enjoy relaxing and spending time together walking on the beach, drinks at sunset, cuddling on the couch, great conversation, etc. without the need to be entertained 24/7.
As for me, I don't request anything in a relationship that I don't offer myself. I've been engaged several times but have always changed my mind (for good reasons!) I don't have children but don't have a problem dating men w/ kids. I enjoy mentoring my students and inspiring them to think bigger. I'm very passionate about what I do and work very hard. I'd like to find a best friend and companion to share life with. I very much want to slow down to smell the roses and am looking for a special man to hold hands with as we walk through life - sharing all of life's wonders and experiences, good and bad.
It's a bonus to find someone who enjoys my humor and can participate in joking around instead of just laughing at my jokes. =) Someone who gives a good massage is another bonus! Please don't email me telling me how great you are at massage. I'm clearly not looking for a masseuse. I'm looking for a man with the characteristics and qualities listed above. The mutual massages would just be a bonus.
I'm always told that I look much younger than my age due to taking care of myself and knowing industry beauty secrets =) But of course I have to give credit where it's due. I also have good genetics. My father was a Pro Baseball player and my mother was a dancer. I'd love to work out with my special someone. Whether it's at the gym, kayaking in the harbor or rollerblading. But, running is out of the question if you know what I mean.
I'm interested in finding a monogamous relationship with someone who seeks an intelligent, caring, confident, extremely passionate woman with a great sense of humor that is very real and down to earth.
I'm seeking a man that is taking his search seriously and has filled out his profile. Those with profiles that read more like a text message are so NOT impressive. I'm looking for a good communicator that can express themselves verbally or on paper. Don't tell me that you hate to type. I mean really...I hate to shave my legs, but I still do it every day! FYI, for those of you whose profiles list "ANY" in every category when it comes to the women you seek... Hello... "Red Flag!" I figure that boils down to one of three things... either you have no idea who you are or what you are looking for, will go out with absolutely anyone that agrees to date you, or you're just too lazy to bother filling it out. Again... not impressive. Lastly, please don't send me (or any other women on this site for that matter) urgent emails explaining that your match membership expires any day so I should call you or give you my number before it is too late. I mean really... if you can't afford another $19.95, I think you should keep that to yourself.
I prefer to exchange a few emails to see if we get each others humor, can keep each others interest, and can make each other laugh before chatting live. So if that is too much effort for you, then please move to the next profile. Thanks for making it all the way through mine. Enjoy your journey in finding your perfect match. I wish you all of the health, happiness, love and success that you desire.