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42 year old man
Arlington, Virginia, United States

Seeking:
women 32-42
Within:
Miles of Arlington, Virginia, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I've walked the line between intellectual and jock my whole life, and I'm just as likely to be reading or checking out a museum as running or playing soccer or basketball. I'd like to meet someone with similarly balanced interests.

I think that patience and tolerance are the two most important ingredients in a successful relationship, and I don't see myself ending up with someone who's certain they've already figured out everything there is to know about life.

I enjoy outdoor activities like hiking, but I don't manage to get out for it as often as I'd like because I get too focused on work at times. I'm hoping to meet someone who will contribute some encouragement toward getting out for it more often and would be interested in sharing the experience. I'm also hoping to meet someone who would be an influence on me to travel more because that's another thing I enjoy and don't manage to organize frequently enough for my taste. I did well on this front alone in 2013, though, in getting to France for a long vacation, so I'm trending in a good direction on the travel front.

I have an intense interest in soccer and try to play as much as possible. I've coaced children in the past--sometimes as a professional coach and others on a volunteer basis--but I've been focused on other activities outside of work in recent years. Because I'm hoping to continue to play competitively for as long as I can, I try to eat healthy, although I have to admit that I'm one of those people who eats pizza like it has a large block of its own on the food pyramid--or whatever diagram the government is telling us to follow these days. I've been cooking a lot more often over the last few years, though, so that's been a healthy trend.

Sports entertainment preferences can be a source of conflict in relationships, so I feel like I should characterize where I fall on the continuum between disinterested and sports obsessed...

I like watching sports on T.V., but I'm not the type of guy that plants himself on the couch watching the entire slate of televised football on Saturdays and Sundays. I did graduate from a university considered to be "a football school," though, so I do try to catch those games when I can. There are good reasons to miss them at times, though. As you might guess, I do watch a lot of soccer, but it's not something I won't also decide to skip when there's an attractive alternative activity.

I'm not crazy about the idea of dating people that are separated from a spouse and not divorced, but I'm willing to keep an open mind. I get that divorce is mainly about resolving child custody, disposition of assets and debts, and paperwork, but I had a relationship a couple of years ago with someone who claimed to be divorced and didn't fully explain her actual status--that it was taking a long time to complete the divorce because of some financial complications--until almost a year had passed. It made things a bit awkward, especially with her two kids. Honesty up front is the best thing for all, I think.

If this all fits with your scene, please get in touch so we can talk.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Running, Soccer, Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I'm okay with dogs, and I've dated dog owners before. However, I don't think I'd ever tackle owning one on my own (without a co-owner), so I don't feel right saying "I like" them. I'm good to dogs owned by others, though.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
Clemson University, Clemson, SC
For fun:

I'm generally a dive bar sort, but I like to break up that monotony when I can and end up in fancier places once in awhile, too. Jeans and t-shirts are my preference, but I do own a tux and can clean up just fine if an event or venue requires that.

Favorite hot spots:

I don't really have any "hot spots," but it's almost overwhelming how much there is to do in D.C. I'm hoping to meet someone with whom mutual expansion of thinking and broadening of experience is possible.

Favorite things:

Like a lot of people, I like a wide variety of music. I'm a pretty big Cake fan, though...I don't watch a lot of T.V., but I do have a thing for those Bourdain food/travel shows. I enjoy Bill Maher, too

Last read:

WP, NYT, WSJ, Economist, NYer, et al. On the literature side...My trip to France stoked my interest in their literature, so I've been digging into the classics (Zola, Hugo, Flaubert, etc., and related stuff like Tale of Two Cities).

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Slender
No preference
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I work for a federal agency with a homeland security/emergency mangement mission, so work is fulfilling but hectic and unpredictable at times.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

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