I am fortunate in many ways and have relatively little baggage, few disappointments and I enjoy a fulfilling life. I seek that hard to find special woman with whom to share it all and to share interests, experiences and a new life. Professionally I am a physician, researcher, lecturer and professor at a prominent university. I was raised by great parents and I am well educated, successful at most things, as well as having enjoyed the good fortune of friends, mentors, family and had many unusual and wonderful experiences and adventures. At this stage of my life I enjoy much freedom (good health, free time, few family demands, many opportunities and financial security). I love to travel and to pursue many diverse interests beyond medicine. I have attained or surpassed most of my professional and financial ambitions.... so I now seek personal fulfillments and companionship.
I most enjoy the accomplishments of others with whom I have affection, interest, interaction and influence, including my remarkable grown children.
I am active in my community and most appealing to me are people with a good heart, generous, open minded, forthright, communicative, not constrained by fear and who love adventure, athletics, travel and creativity. I have seen much of the world and continue to have frequent opportunities for international travel as I lecture and consult worldwide and I have a second home in Italy.
Most consider me to be youthful, handsome, athletic, inquisitive, confident, independent, adventurous, responsible, passionate, insightful and energetic. Athletics has been a life long passion and is part of my daily routine (biking, kayaking, gym, swimming, snowboarding, triathelons, scuba, rollerblading, etc).
I also enjoy art, music and decorating, teaching, good food and diversity (people, cultures, foods, ideas). I try to live life to it’s full and would like to again share it with someone special. As a pediatrician I also enjoy kids, but doubt that I will have more. However, I am not every one's cup of tea.
The best dates are those with a woman who captivates you. The place, attire or activity are all secondary. The hallmark is mutual attraction, anticipation, respect and chemistry as well as good communication and learning from each other. There are smiles, laughter, much eye contact and even touching.
I can not define the ideal relationship, but it must be associated with mutual satisfaction, fond anticipations, joy, smiles, laughter, shared perspectives as well as intellectual, spiritual and emotional strength. The relationship should generate strength, calm and confidence when facing life's challenges. If I knew the formula to bring all that about, I probably would not be on this match service. If you know the secret....please teach me!
People differ in ways that I never imagined, but lasting relationships seem to be those with shared values, anticipation and interests. I seek a woman who is insightful and capable of communicating and sharing a future. I am not sure what she will look like, but I must perceive her to be attractive, poised, intelligent, insightful, confident, multi-dimensional, communicative, mature and capable of being my soul mate. Ultimately I seek a woman who gets who I am and appreciates me and visa versa for me.
She should be emotionally available, optimistic, warm, feminine, sensitive, adventurous, well traveled, tolerant, active and fit. I am fascinated by intelligent and insightful women who have an active and creative mind, combined with the ability to express feelings and thoughts honestly. I also seek someone who is well educated enjoys travel and enjoys adventure. Finally she should be well grounded with strong personal and family values, avoid premature judgements, be confident and able to teach and advise me and see life as a glass more than half full... yet appreciates life without a sense of entitlement! Perhaps this is too tall an order?