My match would be a lady who obviously loves homelife but also loves to go out and kick up their heels from time to time. Must be a "have your back" sort of person and friends first for sure. I think being friends first is very important for a secure and strong relationship. I hear people say all day long that they are looking for someone with no "baggage", come on get real, at our age who doesn't have SOME baggage, hell if you don't have baggage you haven't lived, so lets keep it real. The best you can hope is to keep it carry on instead of so much you have to check it at the gate. Hey in closing, I'm just asking for a chance, if anything I can make you laugh!