I'm pretty relaxed, witty sometimes to a fault (funny, but not mean, I just like to say what's on my mind). Stylistically, I can be a creature of habit in that I'll stick with what works rather than chase the latest fads. I've been fairly career driven but feel I'm in a good place now and am very relaxed about my future. I'm active but also love a good book or movie. I'm not really a club guy, more bars, lounges, or parties . I'll eat just about any type of food except sea urchins because as someone once described, they taste like "low tide" or at least the one I had did. I'm a coffee addict and can be a little neurotic about it sometimes as I can't read my morning paper without it. I've travelled extensively and try to go somewhere I haven't been at least every two years, sometimes off the beaten track. I know it's not really a guy thing, but I think cats are pretty cool creatures. I'm looking for a woman who, most importantly, is comfortable with herself and isn't concerned with trying to measure up to other people's standards.