right now i'm thinking about what i want from Love. truth is, it's not so easy as ordering from a menu. people really can't be labeled.
i know that love is an ever-changing living idea. no two people can love the same way. it's the journey that's important. the joy of discovering each other and thinking how utterly cool it is to have an intimate friend who knows my details, who understands my moods and shares in my daily experiences. so really, my search is for a friend with possibilities.
i'm looking for a genuine, down-to-earth human being (with manners!) who finds the simple things in life the greastest of joys. i'm not rich, and am not flattered by 'being spoiled'. i'm not a princess. there is no one like me in the entire world, and my man shouldn't be a competitor, but a comfort. someone with whom i can sit on the kitchen floor, scooping peanut butter from the jar with a chocolate chip cookie.
i'm a little kid at heart, goodness knows i act like one, so my perfect mate will have to enjoy the whimsical things of life. he must also be able to appreciate the random weirdnesses and unexplainable oddities that frequently occur to make life more interesting.
and when times are tough - and they will be - i want someone who will appreciate that i am strong and dependable (haha, like tires) and can overcome Anything...and have. oh yes, i've done a lot of living, and have so very much more to do.
ultimately, i'm looking for a partner. someone who greets each day with enthusiasm and curiousity. who works to live, not lives to work. a kind of person who is always looking for wonderland.
okay, now the disclaimer part: yes, i have a beautiful son. and he has a dad. he doesn't need another one. i am fully capable of taking care of us. so don't freak out!