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27 year old man
Los Angeles, California, United States

Seeking:
women 18-35
Within:
50 Miles of Los Angeles, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'5" (195cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

First things first, yes I actually went to Harvard, no I'm not a jerk-wad. Stereotypes are lame! As for the "real" me, I'm one of those rare freaks of nature who's both insanely ambitious and really relaxed. Nothing, and I mean nothing gets in my way, but most of the time I'm too busy laughing to notice which way I'm going. Last year I was in the middle of buying a car when I decided, "Hey, I think I'll leave the country and not come back for a year. I guess they can keep the car parked, right?" Wrong, but that's okay, because somebody picked it up. Which is precisely my point: life is EASY, BREEZY, BEAUTIFUL...Cover Girl. Or something like that. I guess what I'm saying is that I get the whole "being motivated" thing (believe me, Julius Caesar was less motivated than I am), but life has to be about more than hurtles, otherwise...why bother?

That pretty much explains why I'm on this site: I'm tired of settling for people who don't inspire me, dammit, who remind me of everyone else I've ever dated, or who hate life for some strange reason. Especially since I moved back to LA a few months ago, dating has been riiiiiidiculous. Women all want the same things: a guy with money, a guy with manners, a guy with looks and/or a sense of humor. Okay, great, you've just described ten million men, including me, but what about BEYOND all that? It's the little things, the crap you can't convey in one of these silly blurbs, that really matter. People out here ignore the little things! They'd rather tick boxes than live life.

One last thing about myself: I'm super gentlemanly. I'm into manners and making people feel special and all that mushy stuff. Not in a creepy way, but in the, "You're awesome, therefore I'm going to prevent this door from slamming you in the face" kind of way. All those silly conventions may be outdated to some people, but I think they're FUN, not to mention a great way to demonstrate that you weren't raised by wolves. On a related note, I'm a man of my word and, according to some people, "honorable," which sounds a little 19th-century but what the heck, I'll run with it.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Cycling, Football, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
Harvard University, Cambridge, MA
For fun:

Movies rock, love museums, and love the gym. I run a lot, take pictures, drive around, do extreme sports, and eat copious quantities of food. My mantra: live life like you're on vacation.

Favorite hot spots:

New Zealand (prettiest place ever), Hong Kong (coolest city ever), and Thailand (mmm food). I'm kind of addicted to traveling, so it's hard to choose. As for America, I'm from the South, so that's gotta go on the list. That and Disneyland: amazing.

Favorite things:

When it comes to music I'm all over the place: Radiohead, The Cool Kids, Miike Snow, The Avett Brothers, Kid Cudi, Daft Punk, etc. I love TV with all my heart, especially Community, 30 Rock, Dexter, Arrested Development, The Office, and Mad Men

Last read:

Me Talk Pretty One Day, by David Sedaris

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'5" (195cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

I started a company a while back that did pretty well, so I'm not obsessed with money anymore. Trying to leave behind a legacy--if you want to know more, just ask. ;)

Income:
$150,001+
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

I may be the whitest man on earth. Family came over on the Mayflower AND signed the Declaration of Independence. If you're going to be a boring white guy, be the MOST boring white guy, right?

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
No preference
Languages:
English, French, Spanish
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

Studied History & English. Thought about law school, decided that was boring, and never looked back. I am/was the national debate champion, so watch yourself! (As stuffy/preppy/lame as all that sounds, I swear I'm cool. Just you wait.)

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