Who am I? I am still trying to figure that one out - after 19 years of marriage and two teenagers on the edge of adulthood. I know a few things true about me - I am a HUGE fan of honesty, my friends might say too much. I am very strong-willed, sincere, and eager to learn. I enjoy conversations and meeting new people. I LOVE to travel - I am looking forward to a future of summer trips and 3 day adventures as my days on "mommy duty" come to an end. I also love to eat out and enjoy being with friends - we laugh a lot, usually at ourselves.
Who am I looking for? Well for starters, definitely NOT husband #2. Not that I would never marry again, just not on the wish list for now. So if you are hunting a mother for your children or future ones - you can move on along. I have been there and done that. Now if you own a motorcycle and need a rider for that weekend trip, got an extra helmet? You like to take off on Friday afternoon and just drive? I can pack light and quickly. Want someone to really talk to on a weeknight when the day has been tough - I can promise to keep you laughing until the rough patch goes away or, I teach freshmen, so I can definitely put your disaster in perspective by sharing some of my horror stories. Ha! But I am not a huge fan of drama - get enough of that at work.
What do I need? I demand honesty and sincerity - even if it hurts. I also appreciate a man who does not think the world revolves around him - someone who would appreciate me for my abilities beyond child rearing and housecleaning. So if your looking for a wife who will "complete" your world - not me, and good luck with that. I like the quote I have seen on this site, so I am going to steal it (apologies to the poet) I want to complement someone and expect the same from him.