grew up in new york, moved to california at age 8, intelligent and well read although I never finished college, had same friends since I was a kid, but love to bring new cool ones into the mix. if i'm an expert at anything it's at making others smile, and golf,ping pong, darts,cards,gambling(don't worry it's not a problem), pretty much all sports, sarcastic,witty, etiquette driven, kind, very much a gentleman by choice....don't get me wrong my mind is filthy. looking for kind, non judgemental, smart, funny, woman.