I think I am supposed to present confidence and being optimistic, which I am not really short of. In reality, I am just good at discouraging ladies away. I want to act as if I were a charming guy, but the next second, the music spirals down, and I go: OK, I confess...My confidence is probably more on intelligence or my work. I can probably never be a guy who is popular among ladies or the center of attention. That is mostly the reason my ex left me after she received her PhD and landed a faculty position at CSU. I have learned that some people may look for instant attractiveness and some may calculate meticulously. I respect either way.
Anyway, I have been living in SD for nearly six years now. I love it here. I do have some strengths:
*. In a nutshell, I am a good nice person (Ok, understood that may not be a good thing sometimes)
*. caring and considerate
*. I stay healthy, running, practicing Yoga weekly
*. I like travel, had visited cities like SF, Chicago, NYC/DC, St Louis/KC, Houston/Austin, Miami/Orlando, NO, Denver, LV and of course LA. I hope to have a partner to tour Europe and Asia in the future
Another important and frank point: I have a 5-year old son living with his mother in another city. As much as I want to find someone I can love and we can enjoy each others company, I need her to have a great heart to accept my son, who is a very good boy and very adorable.
Lastly, as a self-promotion, I understand I may not meet many people's requirements for great charming etc, but for long run, I am probably not that bad a consideration. So can we give it a try?
BTW, I think I look a little better in person than in these pictures:-)