-Briefly about me: Humurous & outgoing, I'm a part time student (BS in Public Safety Admin @ Charteroak State) & a full time fire fighter. I have three beautiful daughters that don't live with me, but I visit & spend time with them regularly, they're everything to me & the main reason I stay so focused in life. I like to travel in & out of the US, as well as taking random & spontaneous road trips & just being out and about & trying new things. I like to go to the gym regularly to unwind & feel good about myself. I'm very motivated, & I have accomplished a ton in my life & I have many more goals to achieve. Some days I like to chill @ home, BBQ, Netflix etc...& some weekends I like to let loose & not let life pass me by experiencing as much as possible that this world has to offer. I've been divorced (cheated on) for several years now & I'm not a "fixer upper". I was raised by a strong single mother who instilled good values & morals in me, like how to respect & treat a good woman, by appreciating her company, companionship, laughter, smile, style & character (yes I exist & yes, Mom did an awesome job).
-My motto: "Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending".
-My favorite quote: "It's not a sin to get knocked down, it's a sin to stay down" - Carl Maxie Brashear
-Like a lot of people with a busy career that consumes a lot of your time, meeting new people is a challenge, hopefully this site will ease that issue for me & introduce me to that special lady.
-What I'm looking for: A woman with a great sense of humor who can match my wit (sarcasm is second language sometimes, lol), a woman who feeds off my energy as much as I feed off of hers. A strong independent woman who can voice her opinions constructively & have a charged conversation with me that always ends with mutual respect for each other & a stronger bond between us. A woman who I can be silly with (I can be a jokester sometimes)...life is too short to always be serious. Without writing a book, basically a woman I can really vibe with who will be one of my closest if not best friend. Finally, vanity is good for self confidence when it's the right place & time, not on a daily basis, so stuck up women get no attention from me. Just be down to earth & you'll get all the attention you'll ever need in your life from me. When I'm in a relationship, I'm the spoiler... It makes me feel good to make that special woman in my life feel good.