I am only interested in men who want to date and get to know one woman at a time. No judgement, to each his own. I respect that everyone has to do what works for them. Personally that just doesn't work for me.
I’m from the northeast, but my maternal grandparents are from the south. Ironically, I don’t think I ever realized how much of a northern woman I am until I moved to Georgia. We crazy Yankees believe smart, competent are sexy. I love to cook, I know how to fix cars and most things in my house because I grew up with two awesome parents. I’m a person who wants to grow and be a little bit better tomorrow than I am today. I strive to grow to evolve; I want to surround myself with people who can expand me and help me grow. I’m extremely supportive of the people in my life, but I’m not a cheerleader. There is a reason cheerleaders only come out during half time: they can’t help you win. I’m looking for someone smart enough and man enough to want a strong, competent person by his side. I’m looking for someone who is classic, classy and a gentleman…because he was raised to value the women in his life.
Just want to level set expectations…
I’m interested in someone who is educated, articulate, and ambitious but knows balance: someone who works hard, but does not live to work; accomplished, but humble. I’m interested in someone who has a healthy lifestyle, not a health nut or a gym rat; someone who’s healthy and healthy for me. I’m interested in someone who understands being a good person is everyone’s responsibility. Integrity, honesty, and communication are critical. I’m interested in people who are also focused on growing as a person, someone who is civicly inclined and volunteers. I want someone mature enough to know his faults (we all have them) and is working to be a better person. You must be a man who values a woman with ambition, integrity and a mind.
Highly favored value adds: love of good food, dark chocolate, really good coffee, red wine, good beer and large dogs.
Last but not least, you must understand the awesomeness of Michael Jackson, the Godfather, Sade, Prince, John Mayer, Rocky movies, and all things Disney... no "Gaston's" need apply. LOL