respectful towards me , not just for sex , not just for looks , likes me for me , understanding, patient , loves to be him and wouldn't change him for the world, confident because confident is very sexy if you tell me you like me and all i like that . doesn't change who he is even around friends , does not lie , play head games , does not cheat or flirt not even calling another girl beautiful cause i don't like that , if u have the thought of cheating let me know so we can break up instead of breaking my heart.