I am a single mom of 2. I am a chef manager for a foodservice in NY. I am a very funny, laughable, playful, yet responsible, hard working, energetic, loveable person who is just looking to be happy. I want to find someone who is going to treat me like I am going to treat him. I believe in the golden rule if you are good to someone else they should be as good to you. I am not a big club person or a big social scene person. My life is basically focused around my kids, family and friends. I would like to find someone who as well has somewhat same focus. We dont have to be the same person because being different is totally cool too and i am a very understanding person. Is good to be you and not bend or change for anyone else.