So I have changed my introduction many times.....not sure why.....guess when something is on my mind or I am feeling a certain type of way I go with it. I figure life is too short and tomorrow is never promised.....I think I learned that a little too late in life. I've been through a lot these last two years and just learned to live in the moment. I am a happy person, most of the time and I want someone to compliment me, not complete me, if that makes sense.
It has been quite a difficult year and half for me...my bf passed in summer of 2011 and it's been hard on me and my son. He was a good man that will always have a place in my heart, but I know he would want me happy. I don't take life for granted. As I have stated earlier I've learned to live in the moment. I do have a son that i completely adore. He is my love and I would do anything for him. He is now 15 soon to be 16 in a few months. He is at the stage of his life where he is a boy becoming a man...and although I know he is coming into his own, it is sometimes hard to let him go and fly on his own.
A little about myself: I've gained some weight this past year... so I am focused on getting back to where I was. Although I hate to exercise, I think being healthy is the key to a long beautiful life. I love food but I need to learn portion control--hey-- I am a work in progress...always will be. I can be extremely moody, have no patience, indecisive, goofy at times, very talkative, a procrasinator, brutally honest, don't retain information very well and a total girly girl. I am also very loyal, caring, funny, will be there for you whenever it's needed, always have your back, romantic as well as giving. I am a very passionate woman when it comes to my son, my family, friends and the person I am with. When I love..I love deep and hard.
Oh and I rarely spell-check--so please forgive my spelling.
Side note: I am not into nature, hiking, camping, sports...not much of an animal lover...hate to exercise but will when I need to....LIKE NOW... but am willing and open to do these things with the right man with LITTLE complaining...lol
The type of guy I am looking for? Not sure as I don't have a type but would love if he is somewhat like this. (smile) I love intellectual men, that is sexy as hell! You have to love life and the people that surround it! Not into thugs or wannabe be thugs... You do drugs please keep it moving. I am looking for someone to make me laugh! And love romance! Also, please have time for me in your life. I am a very independent woman but it's nice to know that you have someone who wants to make time for you. I don't ask for much, Just time and communication. I've lived on my own since my son was a year and half so although I am set in my ways I am open to meeting someone who wants to be a part of my life and possibly a future together. I will be 35 this coming summer and how I view life is slowly evolving and although every guy I meet won't be the one I am looking for long term. I am passed the point in my life where I just want to party and have fun. I am not in clubs but I do enjoy going to local bars, lounges, road trips, etc. I am a people person and have a close group of friends. i would like a partner that is okay with doing couple things. Most of my friends are 30 and above so I am looking for a mature guy who's not afraid to jump right in with my circle of friends. The majority of my friends are married so sometimes it does get lonely being the only single person. So it would be nice to share moments and memories with the right guy. I rarely date so if I accept a date with you it means I am truly interested in getting to know you as a person. It's a bit scary putting yourself out there, but I am ready to be comitted to someone so please be gentle and handle with care (smile)
So with that said I wish everyone good-luck and hope you find that special someone.
Happy hunting everyone......
