I know how to take care of myself, and am pretty independent. A guy would be helpful when wanting to start a family though.
I'm looking for someone that I mesh well with, and doesn't mind my busy schedule.
I exercise at least 4 days a week and absolutely love my zumba classes.
I have been married before, but I have no kids so I'm fortunate that I don't need to be "tied down" by him for the rest of my life.
You live, you learn, then you move on.