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48 year old man
Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States

Seeking:
women 40-55
Within:
50 Miles of Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Thanks for taking a moment to read my profile! Most people who know me would describe me as intense, introspective, humorous, and self-deprecating. I love the beach and I love traveling in general. Most of all, though, I enjoy old movies, great conversation, sports, and cultural events. I love being outside and I love to work out, but you are more likely to find me at a museum than on a ropes course.

After years of working as a career college administrator in a for-profit setting, I am making the transition to non-profit work. I feel more ready than I ever have been for a true companion, and I believe utterly that my greatest years and greatest love are still ahead of me.

I don't have any preconceived list of characteristics that I am looking for in a companion with respect to occupation, income, eye color, etc. All of those things are rather unimportant if there is chemistry and comfort between us.

I do not believe that there is an "ideal" man or woman, but a good match for me would most likely be someone who

--Values the intellectual over the material.

--Is self-possessed but not pretentious.

--Sees a date as a possibility for something wonderful, not a cautious venture into something frightening.

--Enjoys high culture such as the symphony, the opera, the theatre, and the museum, but also enjoys the low cultural spaces of the ballpark, the bowling alley, or the pub.

--Understands that conversation IS an activity, and loves a stimulating conversation over a bottle of wine in the evening or a cup of coffee in the morning.

--Is monogamous but flirtatious with one she loves.

--Is politically and socially liberal but openminded in most things.

--Passionate emotionally, intellectually, and physically as her whim demands.

--Whose favorite initials are TCM.

--Who loves beach vacations, historical vacations, and nature vacations.

--Finally, someone who knows that friendship shows itself in both being there for support or for stimulation, yet stepping aside when your partner has a moment that is his/hers and his/hers alone.

My quest is to find someone whose passions I can share, as she shares mine; that is, someone I can teach and learn from. If you are out there, please don't wait for me to contact you; life is too short for that. Reach out and I will answer with equal playfulness, openness, and hopefulness.

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Bowling, Football, Golf, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, Hockey
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
I'll tell you later
College:
Muhlenberg College, Allentown, PA
For fun:

I love to be outdoors when the weather is nice, but on inclement days I am just as happy snuggling by a fire watching a documentary or an old film noir--my favorite. TCM is a constant companion of mine. I also love live music--any kind and any time.

Favorite hot spots:

Museum of Modern Art, Carnegie Hall, Finger Lakes Region, Thousand Islands, Center City Philadelphia, Doylestown, Lambertville

Favorite things:

I love the beach--anytime and anywhere. I also love freshwater fishing to relieve the tension of the everyday. I love to read, especially biographies and historical works. On weekends I enjoy going into the city or the country, as my whim dictates.

Last read:

Currently reading Pierre Bordieu's Distinction: A Social Critique of the Judgment of Taste.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
About average
No preference
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Salt and pepper
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist

My profession has been running career-focused colleges for students from diverse backgrounds, but I have recently moved into fundraising in the nonprofit sector.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

My BA and MA are both in English. I love discussing American literature, history, and politics.

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