After a week or two of being on the site, I decided to update my profile. I've had the pleasure of reading numerous profiles and have noticed that a majority of the men want a woman who's fun and without drama. So I ask, what to you is drama and what does that encompass??? Should I never have a bad day so to speak, no unexpected situations to occur, be flawless and have a perfect life? The word 'drama' can mean one thing to one person and yet another to someone else :)
Since I've been dating again, I've learned that the same complaints men have about women can easily be turned around, i.e. being clingy/needy, emotionally unavailable, 'baby mama' issues, not stable, too many expectations, wanting to rush things, insecure, etc.
So with that being said - what are you really looking for? Can you fill those shoes yourself? Do you expect what you yourself can't be or won't be? Are you just looking for some 'arm candy'? Does all it take is a big booty and big boobs to pull you in??
I am not on this site to play games - been there and done that many years ago. I've matured and grown in so many ways and on so many levels since then. I have NO tolerance or patience for junior high games. I'm not a girl so boys I am not interested in.
Gentlemen: Have you ever had a woman make love to your MIND, to touch your soul, to awaken something in you that you never knew existed?
Do you want a LIFE of pleasure/happiness/joy/fulfillment or a NIGHT of instant gratification? Can you be content and committed versus always looking for something you think is better? Is the grass really greener on the other side??? There is definitely always someone out there more attractive, more successful, smarter, etc. than the one you're with - so can you see the forest for the trees???
I seek the one who will be my best friend, my confidant (not my girlfriend), my ride-or-die partner and the love of my life.
Things that turn me on: a man who dresses well, has a loving and positive relationship with his mother and kids (if applicable), has learned from his mistakes and is wiser because of it, knows that trials/tribulations are for a reason and can always see something good even when roadblocks occur, nonjudgmental, well rounded, reliable, loyal, straight forward and attractive (hey, I'm a visual creature myself).
I do not have a laundry list of requirements - just be you...always true to yourself first :)
So what about me - as my friends describe me - I am loyal, professional, easy going, well rounded, have a great sense of humor, passionate about my life, my sons, my career, kind, intelligent and attractive :)
If I've kept your attention until the end...I commend you...to all I wish the best in your search whatever you're looking for...KC
