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43 year old man
Garden Grove, California, United States

Seeking:
women 34-46
Within:
50 Miles of Garden Grove, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (3)
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Hmmm... Let's see... first of all take a DEEP BREATH... I like to write, to express, my hope is that you can ease all the way down into reading about me. It's for you. Yes you to learn about me. So enjoy.
I like complex people who like to keep things simple.
Substance, principles, and character should mean more to a woman than a vacation or getting the state of her nails.
I avoid women who want a date to be about entertainment, or worse the man their dating to be "entertainment."
I notice whether what you say is congruent with your non-verbal behavior or actions.
I love paying attention to a woman's mannerisms and what makes them unique.
I love love love to read and share ideas. I was a teacher for 7 years, and I love the whole sense of being a life time learner, and with my faith, omgoodness, as I write this I know I have so much to learn. Faith is humbling. Not that you are confused, but sometimes I forget that in the business of knowing what is what I'm not actually God. Life surprises surely. Go figure. Humility. God uses it. I know. :)
I'm a dad and I totally love my babies, translation children two daughters 13 and 11 and a son 14. My babies, most wonderful children live with me during the week and with their momma on the weekends. Momma and me are cool, and dare I say she'd hope to be good friends with the woman I marry. If you're a secure woman you should be good.
I don't introduce my children to whom I'm dating, meeting, or whatever you want to call it, unless I were getting to a place were this was significantly more than dating, My goal hears is to only introduce my children to the woman I'll marry. That may not work out, but that is my hope and intent. Need to protect my little people you know.
So I'm looking for someone who's talented with substance, looks pretty cute, fit, maybe tall, and makes me smile when they get mad. Getting mad can be kinda cute. My youngest daughter, when she get's mad I can't but help but smile on the inside.
I tend to be most attracted to women who polarize the world into good and bad, right and wrong, a woman who has convictions, and is often strong willed.
I don't aspire to date my whole life, but I don't look to "make" something a relationship. I'd like to keep things fairly light at one level for a while getting to know each other, but too be available to talk about just about anything in a mature way.
I'm certainly very interested and do pay attention to how a woman deals with conflict, driving in traffic, the stress of life, sharing time, thoughts about familial roles, say, wifey and husband rolls etc. There's a lot to learn and it can be a good time.
If you've read this to the end, say, "I've read this to the end." It makes a good impression that someone took the time to read through a profile and I won't take it that you're bragging. :)
I am Catholic Christian and while I'd be happy to meet anyone, and I value in some way everyone, I do expect to find myself, if married, equally yolked. Also, to my Catholic friends despite my "divorced" status in this profile the marriage I was in was not recognized by the church. I will be free to marry within the church.
I'm a Kobe Bryant fan. I pray for him from time to time. We all need prayer. I was so happy that he reconciled with his wife. I don't love basketball like I used to, but I do very much enjoy the games. I can totally get absorbed in a good Lakers game, but I can miss a game. People and situations trump game for sure. I'm going to be watching closely to see how Kobe comes back, if he can, from rupturing his Achilles. Watching Kobe strive these last years have made me appreciate him more. I don't know of a single other player who would have the presence of mind and physical mastery of his body to despite this injury sink two free throws, in part for his team, after rupturing his Achilles tendon.
The Catholic Church is full of sinners as is any family. Don't leave your family for anything. Peace.pp

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Running, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I'm very much a cat person, who also really really loves dogs and most mammalian animals. Don't much care for reptiles and birds. Turtles are groovy, fish are alright, but they die so often! I'd rather not torture another fish! ;)

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
California State University, Long Beach, Long Beach, CA
For fun:

I spend quite a bit of my time reading. I also enjoy people watching, swimming, and playing sports etc.

Favorite hot spots:

Beach communities, say, like Santa Monica on third Street and the peer area is just great people watching.

I love visiting the Lake Arrowhead area also. It's quiet. It leaves a lot of room for great conversations, hiking, and quality time.

Favorite things:

Although I DJ weddings, I'm not the avid music fan I used to be, but I love love love being a part of weddings. Everyone is there to have a good time. Great atmosphere, and it's incredible to see two families coming together and being a part of it.

Last read:

My reads. Hmm... I've been reading "Peter, Jesus, and the Keys," read "The Bible and Birth Control," and was leaning more towards a non-denominational faith, but with what I've learned over time I am decidedly a Catholic Christian. You? Let's talk :)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
5'6" (167cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

I am a Catering Event Coordinator/Salesman and a Wedding DJ for a very reputable and family Catering Company.

Income:
$35,001 to $50,000
$25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (3)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, White / Caucasian

I'm a mix of German, Polish, and Irish. Though I have a French last name. Go figure! :) My children are black and white.

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other

I love all my Christian Brethren, but I won't shy away too much from sharing in some discussion about our differences in practiced faith, where they came from. I might learn something. You might too! ;)

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

My degree was in Philosophy, I may return to finish a teaching Credential. I taught Special Education in a special day class including students with physical and health related disabilities for 6 years. It was like an extended family. Good stuff.

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