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Handle:
uncabri
Essay:
Thanks to the girl that told me she needed to consult with her shrink to see why she didn't show for our initial meeting and then get back to me, im seriously jaded by this online dating crap. I was interviewed for the Creative Loafing lust issue that hits the news stand February 13th. You can read more venting there. Although I'm no longer actively searching this site for a mate, I'm open to meeting her here. If you do decide to email me, please be ready to actually talk on the phone and meet. I am not here to develop an online relationship with anyone. If you think that picture from 1990 is your best picture, please pass me by. If you are wanting to chill and take it slow, and by that you mean "Brian, buy me drinks and take me out to dinner for at least 10 dates without even a kiss on your cheek" please pass me by. If your intent is to add to your friend list, again pass me by. I've got 1647 Facebook friends and I probably need to delete some of those. I don't need another friend. If you were the perfect one in every relationship you've ever been in, and the guys you dated were the reason you broke up pass me by. The common denominator in all your failed relationships is you. If you are not mature enough to accept some responsibility and realize it takes 2 to make a bad relationship please pass me by. Youre too perfect. No man wants to pics of your dog, house, kids , sunsets, cute Facebook quotes etc unless youre actually in the picture. I've received feedback that I'm look like a partier or club head because all of my pictures are when I'm out and about. Let me assure you I'm no party boy or club head. I normally don't have a photographer around when I'm at work, church or spending time with my daughter. It's funny how people make judgement about someone based on 6 pictures and 2000 words. I don't take pics in my bathroom. I take pics living life. If you are too worried about your hair that it can't get messed up and done again, you probably aren't my type of girl. Loosen up ladies, its just hair and make up. We can get it done over I am single as of 6 months ago and looking for friendship and much more. I am currently accepting applications for Someone that has thier manic craziness in check. Either theough medication or counseling. I am easy on the eye; will not embarrass you in public. I am well rounded and enjoy it all; from sports to the arts. You better grab me now. When I hit the lottery or sell the story of my life and hit it big I'm sure I won't give you the time of day. :-) Things I like: Buffalo exchange, kissing, the small of a womans back, The Avengers, Thor, Coffee, tequila, coffee flavored tequila, Thrift stores, beach, mountains, last minute Priceline getaways, appetizers, tailgating, HGTV, Football, ice cream, pecan pie, yard sales, sushi, records, dessert, olives, concerts, craft beer, running the greenway, Qualifications: Please be..... Spiritual (not self-righteous) Intelligent Appreciative of the arts Appreciative a good meal (I love to cook) Tolerant Nice Looking Love to Travel Enjoy the Holiday Season A dreamer and a doer Strong in times of turmoil, but soft as a pillow Patient as I work through this journey of life (will be well worth it in the end) Music Lovers are preferred: My favorite Genres -Soul, Jazz, Soulful House, Brazil, Back Packer Hip-Hop, New Jack Swing (Yeah, I had a flat top). Pete Rock Production, J-Dilla, Native Tongues, The Cure, 9th Wonder, Platinum Pied Pipers, 60's Jazz (Ramsey Lewis, Cal Tjader, Miles) 70's Fusion (Hendrix, Buddy Miles, Santana), 70's Soul (ike turner, Willie Hutch, Isaac Hayes) 80's Pop (Cure, Duran Duran, Smiths, Morrissey)....Pretty much all good music I think the following TV shows are funny: Seinfeld, SNL, Family Guy, Get a Life, King of Queens, The Office, My Name is Earl, The Boondocks, Sarah Silverman. New adventures of old Christine,
Gender:
Male
City:
Charlotte
State:
North Carolina