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37 year old man
Playa del Rey, California, United States

Seeking:
women 20-30
Within:
50 Miles of Playa del Rey, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

What do you want most from your companion? I can assure you that no one guy can do, or know, or have experienced it all. Good looks and charm can oppose depth and honesty, exceeding confidence can negate humility and sensibility, financial security can be the adversary of generosity and kindness, intellectual genius the nemesis of faith, physical prowess the saboteur of psychological discernment, familiar loyalties the antagonist of individual growth, discipline the rival of self-expression and creativity, culinary artistry the death of the waistline, etc. So realizing that you will not find everything that you seek in any one partner likely, what do you desire most? What, if anything are you unwilling to sacrifice or settle on
Some of my own strengths, talents and gifts include the following

I am strong willed, resilient and driven to improve myself. I have humility, am remorseful and conscientious. I am sensitive, sensual, vulnerable and receptive. I am honest, loyal to the truth, can be objective, do well with critical thinking and my communication skills are good. I am willing to compromise and sacrifice and see the value in both

How far will you go in pursuit of happiness, fulfillment and peace? The average, the norm, the bar and the limit have all been set with slight regard to our own story, experiences, thoughts, feelings, beliefs and dreams. If you feel as I do that the world is significantly troubled and disappointing, how much of yourself are you ready to give and how close to the edge are you willing to go in attempting to positively change it? How honest are you able to be with yourself? How much weight, strain, ambiguity, pain, sacrifice and failure are you capable of bearing in the process of parting the essence from the nonsense and the passage of the man that you love? How much does it matter to you that you truly understand anyone or that the world, by and large, will ever ultimately understand and appreciate you

Some of my disappointments suffering and pain include the following

I was abandoned by both of my parents and my only alleged sibling was aborted. Growing up in the California juvenile court system I lived more than two dozen places before I was legally an adult. The violence and emotional, physical abuse that I experienced growing up is almost unbelievable to me. I married the first woman that I believed cared about me and it blew up in my face. My son passed away at age four after a two year battle with cancer. I have had to fight like hell to maintain custody of and a loving relationship with my daughter for more than a decade as her mother and company have attempted ceaselessly to tear us apart from one another. I’ve almost completed a six year obligation to the California Army National Guard and the person who I did it all for has been taught to devalue and dismiss it. I spent a year overseas playing soldier as a surreal self-sacrifice while never received a single letter, care-package or email

As for my weaknesses, transgressions and failures, please don’t hesitate to ask. Since the amount that can be written here is limited I would rather not use it up beating myself over the head, so to speak. Life experience is often referred to as baggage and ignorance is just as often referred to as bliss, but I’ve really come a long way, and have learned a lot and improved myself quite a bit because of my mistakes, wrongs and general fallibility

What I want from you

1.) Put some wind in my sails. Dance around naked a million different times, figuratively and literally, in a billion different colors, in a trillion different ways. Flirt with me constantly and make love to me like the world is ending. 2.) Put me first if I’m worth it. No one has ever put me first. 3.) Give me a genuine second chance at love and happiness.4.) Give me the benefit of the doubt. 5.) Get me off the floor. I haven't owned a bed mattress for very long time. It's complicated

Out of space here. All the best

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Bowling, Football, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Not much of a cat person, unfortunately. I'm more of a dog guy. If you love cats then by all means, enjoy the hell out of em'. Maybe your cat can be the one to scratch its way into my heart somehow. Lol. Birds are beautiful but too loud for my taste.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Playing basketball has always been my favorite pastime. Listening to Classic rock, jazz, classical and any great love song. The Beatles, Stevie Wonder and Led Zeppelin are my faves. Movies... Wish there was more space to answer these questions.

Favorite hot spots:

Anywhere with the right person/people is great. The Earth and its weather, seasons, and the many cultures of our people are incredible. Sharing it all is often a drag though. I like to think and feel deeply. Phrenic tranquility is my favorite place.

Favorite things:

Changes in the weather, children laughing, playing basketball, pushing people away to see if they will stay, pissing people off to see who they really are, disappointing large groups of people who are clearly in the wrong, hero stuff, apologizing...

Last read:

Doing lots of reading in the process of creating my website. www.universalstepchild.com. Google and Wikipedia are amazing initial sources of information.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Auburn / Red
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Law enforcement / Security / Military
No preference

I could have had a thousand decent careers. The two problems that have prevented me from doing so are 1.) I am passionate and care deeply about whatever I'm doing, and 2.) I want to fix and improve everything. People don't like these qualities often.

Income:
$25,001 to $35,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Does it really even matter anymore? Climate differences over thousands of years gave us our complexions. Pick and choose whatever rituals, traditions and food preferences you want and get over it already. I've seen it from many angles. SMH.

Faith:
Christian / Other
No preference

I'm too religious for most people and either too much of a sinner or too biblical for other Christians. When I find that unique balance of acceptance, honestly and humility it's an extraordinary experience, religious or not. God bless or good luck.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Some college
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I was well on my way to becoming an RN before child custody issues simply crushed me. Now that's been settled finally and I'm preparing to finish the pre-requisites and enter an RN program eventually. I took two years of photo but changed directions.

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