I'm headstrong and have a diverse background so I know how to be softspoken but am not always so. I am looking for someone who isn't afraid of having an EQUAL partner. I am fun-loving and while I'm tightly wound-I also can have fun doing anything and avoid making things intense. I try to deflect any heated situations and avoid having those serious dramas if at all possible. It's pretty simple but the man I want to be with has to have a full-time, steady job (doesn't matter what), live on his own and have a vehicle. He can't be a woman hater on any front and he can't put his family above his partner all of the time. He needs to be the kind of guy that would rather say something nice than insult his partner and who truly wants us both to have happy lives together instead of anything dysfunctional or not normal. Pretty basic just be healthy and happy because I am both of those things and with the right partner that could make for an amazing life.