Hmm... This is gonna be a work in progress, ironically like my own life.
I'm an honest, well-mannered ex-rocker who does what he wants. I'm passionate about my belief in God, my family and my music. I work as a recording engineer and music producer, both at a studio in LA and my own small production company, and spend most of my free time either working on my own compositions or producing other artists.
I played professional music for over 20 years, toured the world, survived three marriages/divorces, lost 2 children at birth or shortly after, rehabilitated myself after a life-altering back injury and am extremely proud of myself, having quit smoking over a month ago and still hanging on!!!
I live with my 17 year old daughter Tonisha. She is the most wonderful gift God has ever blessed me with and I love her completely. She is an amazing, talented, and gifted person and she is a huge part of my life. In all truth we should probably be considered a “package” deal.
I cherish honesty in all forms. I will not be around people who lie, are mean or don't care about people or the world around them.
The delight of my life is music. Along with my work as an engineer, I spend great amounts of time in my home project studio writing/recording music.
Second to honesty, humor is the most important thing in my world. I love sick, inappropriate humor and try to laugh with each breath.
I have the ability (although seldom used) to be quite articulate, intelligent, well-mannered and look great in a suit. However, the best times of my life are casual, hanging on the beach smelling like the ocean kind of days.
I am a gentleman, well-mannered and truly believe in treating all people in a Christian way . I am deeply spiritual, but you probably wouldn't know it until you got to know me. I feel things strongly but try not to let everyone in the world know about it.
Since I have been dating again I have found that I am not exactly "compatible" with the average female my age. I'm looking for a needle in a haystack, someone who is a grown-up, but doesn't act like it all of the time.
If you are looking for a settled, secure guy who never has a hair out of place, wears designer clothes, says "gosh", watches Glen Beck and enjoys rocking out to Nickelback in his Lexus - I'm not your guy.
If you are an adventurer, a wanderer who still enjoys a balance of both adrenaline and zen in your life, who isn't afraid to do stupid things in public for a laugh, turns the radio up all the way when a cool new band comes on, tries stuff just because you have never done it before, and still prefers a dangerous jungle over captivity... we need to talk.