Has it come to this--just kidding! I have been to the Chicago area for over two years now and it was suggested by my brother that I try this. I am the hopeless romantic with a big heart when it comes to life and feel that not a moment should EVER be wasted. They say to work hard without showing it and it is typical of me. I have been told that I'm funny, friendly, down-to-earth, focused, extremely loyal, curious about and attentive to every detail (with just a bit of sarcasm added). I am fortunate to have come accross some great people with great talents and, as a result, I have attempted to persevere the tough times. I believe round shoulders and a helpful positive attitude go far in making life fun, varied, and interesting. I stay busy but I also find time to cook (desserts mostly--which are usually given away) and work-out to clear the conscience once in a while. A night out on the town is just as important as staying in with a movie is--as long as it is quality time well spent, even if you do absolutely nothing... however, that's not to say that I don't have a fun/wild side and love to be creative and spontaneous.....I am checking to see what is out there and interested in getting to know someone who believes that optimism, honesty, respect, and creativity make every experience unique and fun. I am interested in a lady participates in their lives as well as the lives of others--that is having some sense of balance mentally and physically with the inner child mixed in.... :)