I am a 53 year old recently divorce male looking for a sole mate. I was married for 25 years, we had and raised 3 beautiful daughters (two are in UC colleges and the other a junior in high school who lives with her mom). Life gave me a curve ball and my wife had an affair left me for my best friend of 20 years. So now I find myself single with little dating experience. Life's short and time goes by fast, so I intend to make the most of it. I’m not bitter, I’ve moved on and I’m ready for the second half of my life. I gradated from the University of Hawaii, started as an engineer and moved to marketing, and on into to management. Both companies were extremely successful, Stock Options sky rocketed and many of us did very well. Let me point out, money isn't everything and it does not buy happiness. Today I work as a day trader and have a few investments in real estate. I enjoy music, I go to 2-3 concerts (Pink Floyd, CSN Young, Moody Blues, Eric Clapton etc…) a year. I am looking for a woman who also enjoys music, going to movies and/or watching them at home. Hiking, going for walks, when possible on the beach, traveling and cuddling on a couch watching a little TV. You should have an open mind and be into both casual and intellectual conversation. I love home cooked meals, but sadly I can hardy boil water (lol), but I can and do barbeque Stakes, Tri-tip, etc quite well . If you are looking for a good man and good times, lets get together for a cup of coffee or something. I am looking forward to having a serious relationship with a warm loving, caring woman.