This is the difficult part. Who am I looking for? In the past it has never been the same. So how can it be something now other then the special something that sparks interest. Like a smile, or the eyes, or her voice, or wow love her hair.
So I guess its things like: Being able to talk, but also feeling and knowing that its ok if we dont. Without hearing are you ok? Whats wrong? Iam not the greatest planner, so she will need to be spontaneous.
Like to travel, going to the beach, taking hikes, being able to smell the flowers, going to movies, taking drives, maybe even going on bike rides ect.
Be down to earth, so like a great car or clothes are something that is nice to have but does not define who you are.
Be self sufficient. So I dont wont someone who is needy, but I want her to know that iam here if she needs me. Iam pretty handy with most anything.
During this time, I have been thinking of what Iam looking for. I just got back from NYC, and I was there about a month before as well. When I go there I like to explore and find new things meet new people. Go to shows... you know the norm. But I what I dont have right now is to be able to say "Hey look at that isnt that beautiful" ? someone to share the moments together. But also I need someone who is game to do things and has the ability to try new things.
But you know I think this has to be just like if I where to meet you while shopping, or at the Beach, or wherever, the first spark is always the visual, then it just goes from there. Conversation. I can write, write and write some more on how great I think I am, but until there is some real chatting exchanges of emails, or God forbid some real talking, you will never know me.
So ask me some questions, and they can be tricky, so you can see if Iam ok.