I am what I believe normal but the longer I live the more I wonder what "normal" is. I am not a great dater, I have spent most of my adult life in serious relationships but I find myself in a town where my counter parts are probably like me not in the bars or single spots where one would have met a potential partner back in our 20's and 30's...sooo here I am feeling very much like a fish out of water looking for my man in cyberspace....I would love to have an opportunity for an organic relationship but I think this will work out as a launching pad to something better. I like the beach, I love going out to hear live music at small intimate venues, I like movies, I like cooking, traveling, I'm from miami FL originally and love all the little towns in FL from Key West to Gainsville...Im looking for a guy to be myself with if we are out or doing nothing, I dont want to play games or compete for his attention and time. I want a serious long term relationship not a booty call. I love a guy who can make me laugh is a great kisser and knows his mind, no wishy washy guys. If I dont respond to your email that is my response, if you dont respond to mine, I will take that as your response, easy and drama free. I feel like I should be saying something clever but Im not coming up with anything...Im usually much more interesting than this profile is making me seem. I guess the one who is right for me will know it inspite of this. =)