I'm funny, outgoing, and yet shy at the same time..lol. I really havent had a social life for 11 yrs so not sure what people do nowadays. I stay home with my kids, but getting in to the swing of Being single. I'm looking for someone whos ready to settle down and know what should come first in there life. I just want someone not to be a father to my kids they have one but would know how to treat them, and someone who would treat me with respect and be there when I needed him. Been alone long enough. Just wanting to find that person I feel safe and happy with. I'm very simple money is of no importance to me. happiness is the most important thing in life.