Like my headline says, "looking for something real" I'm an outgoing, family oriented, hardworking, independent person. I have a great life and looking for someone to share it with. I am looking to meet a man that knows what he wants as well. There's a country song that says, "I want a man to stand beside me, not in front of or behind me." Honesty, understanding, compromise, selflessness...these are all important traits.