I am a good mom. I have three wonderful kids. I have blonde hair with highlights. I am 5'5'. I weigh 220lbs. I just want to have someone take care of me and my kids without destroying my life and there's anymore. I want to be able to have my own house and a job and my life back in order. I moved here from the coast and i have been here since i was in seventh grade. I graduated in 1989 from Douglas High School in Winston, OR. My family lives here and i am looking to move to Kentucky with friends in March. I am wanting to start a whole new life their. I would like my match to be able to be sensitive but firm and be able to work and not comlain at all about working. I just want someone to be there for me just as much as i am there for them. I cannot have anymore kids. I don't want to get married unless we are together at least 1 to 2 years. I got married March 3, 2007 and divorced Dec. 1, 2007. The guys i have been with have been very abusive and i don't want that anymore. My kids and I deserve better. My daughter is 14 yrs old, my son is 10 yrs. old and last son is 8 yrs. old. I will be 37 years old Dec. 21st this year.